How Can I Reject Men Nicely?

[A Woman's Opinion]

I am having trouble with this.

The "I have a boyfriend" line doesn't work, and it's getting annoying.

Long story short.... I haven't always been the most beautiful girl, however weight loss and growing into my looks has changed that.


I get men who bother me more often, and I can tell immediately if someone is my type.


I try my best to be nice, but men always get mad, talk crazy about you, or simply won't accept the word "No".


How can I be firm, and nice at the same time When rejecting a man?




My homegirl (who is very pretty) says nice and rejection don't mix. You have to be mean to the man, or else he will keep trying. Basically, she says you have to make the man HATE you in order for him to stop liking you.


I hope this isn't my only option.


Help Please.

 

[2stainz]

just be adult about it..go up to them and say this will never work bc you are not my type and I am not interested at all

 

[MikelArteta]

Just last month you were 200lbs

 

[Dirty_Jerz]

What @2stainz said but don't say it like a bytch

 

[GodinDaFlesh]

You don't. Don't be stingy with the punani, give them want they want.

 

[Fmju]

Just give them the no. Let them get as mad as they want df why should you have to change cuz other people can't take a simple No?

 

[A Woman's Opinion]

Just last month you were 200lbs

No. I wasn't...

 

[MoeDollaZ$]

I am having trouble with this.

The "I have a boyfriend" line doesn't work, and it's getting annoying.

Long story short.... I haven't always been the most beautiful girl, however weight loss and growing into my looks has changed that.


I get men who bother me more often, and I can tell immediately if someone is my type.


I try my best to be nice, but men always get mad, talk crazy about you, or simply won't accept the word "No".


How can I be firm, and nice at the same time When rejecting a man?




My homegirl (who is very pretty) says nice and rejection don't mix. You have to be mean to the man, or else he will keep trying. Basically, she says you have to make the man HATE you in order for him to stop liking you.


I hope this isn't my only option.


Help Please.

yu gassed up or wat? lets see sum pics

 

[A Woman's Opinion]

Just give them the no. Let them get as mad as they want df why should you have to change cuz other people can't take a simple No?

A simple...


"No... I'm not interested. I have a boyfriend"

Doesn't seem to work if I say it nicely smiling.


I have to make the stuck up, mean face, and have an attitude to make them stop.

I don't want to be like that though. The

 

[A Woman's Opinion]

yu gassed up or wat? lets see sum pics

Not gassed up at all!


I said clearly I grew into my looks. I'm not perfect, but I get a lot of play now.


I know I didn't always.

 

[wet landscapes]

my sister has this problem bad since she wants to be nice but she's scared of men so she comes off super harsh
it's impossible
too nice and they continue
too firm and you're shytting all over someone who is pretty much complimenting you
you can't even say "I'm gay", this dude told me that's fine because "he can put a skirt on"
another ignored it and started talking about his dikk and started flicking his tongue near my face

you can always say you're a tranny tho

 

[KOOL_G_TRAP]

ow white man dont get at you i see

 

[Dirty_Jerz]

you can't even say "I'm gay",

It worked for me you lil liar

 

[Fmju]

A simple...


"No... I'm not interested. I have a boyfriend"

Doesn't seem to work if I say it nicely smiling.


I have to make the stuck up, mean face, and have an attitude to make them stop.

I don't want to be like that though. The

Then you have the option to keep it moving and ignore them. If it's face to face just walk away and ignore, and if it's over social media or phones just block they ass. Once you already make your move or lack thereof you don't owe anyone an explanation and if they can't accept that then that's their bad and they gonna have get over it.

 

[2stainz]

I dont believe some of what ur saying

I know girls personally, that dont want to say a flat out "never will happen" bc they like being chased and having options even though that poor guy will probably never get any..EVER.

Its fuked up bc then you will complain about being persued. Let all them dudes stop looking at you for even a second though.. you would all die from lack of attention lol