How Can I Reject Men Nicely?

[Jplaya2023]

A simple...


"No... I'm not interested. I have a boyfriend"

Doesn't seem to work if I say it nicely smiling.


I have to make the stuck up, mean face, and have an attitude to make them stop.

I don't want to be like that though. The

Stop brushing your teeth and washing your ass.

Put the weight back on in which you loss

Walk around with one of your male "friends" and have him mean mug every niqqa in site.

Stay out of public places except work the gym etc..

Accept the fact that those men are just trying to preserve their bloodlines and they see you as a potential mate for that.

Just be happy men love you because once it's gone it's gone

 

[King Poetic]

Just pull down your pants and show him your dikk


Nah.. just tell him to fukk off

 

[MoeDollaZ$]

Not gassed up at all!


I said clearly I grew into my looks. I'm not perfect, but I get a lot of play now.


I know I didn't always.

show us wat u look like

 

[wet landscapes]

It worked for me you lil liar

my friend told me to pretend to be her gf when she was getting followed by hood dudes
all that did was make them go on me and hit on her harder

 

[Terrance Curtis Beasley]

"I got 7 kids do you wanna take care of them"

 

[Mowgli]

Last chick waited till she got in the car and then said I don't think we're a good match via text.

I was like

The whole I'm not feeling a connection shyt works too

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

I can't...lmao!!!! Ya'll responses are too much!!!! I'm so glad I got my own office. People don't have to worry bout why I'm crying!

@OP tell em you don't have sex until marriage and start talking about Jesus.

They'll run. Trust me...lol!

Also the one about 7 kids is hilarious! I wouldn't even be able to keep a straight face.

But seriously this gets hyped up a bit. Some dudes can be butts, but most dudes, even the most hood dudes have never disrespected me if I wasn't interested. Guys are actually a lot nicer than people give them credit for.

 

[sfgiants]

I am having trouble with this.

The "I have a boyfriend" line doesn't work, and it's getting annoying.

Long story short.... I haven't always been the most beautiful girl, however weight loss and growing into my looks has changed that.


I get men who bother me more often, and I can tell immediately if someone is my type.


I try my best to be nice, but men always get mad, talk crazy about you, or simply won't accept the word "No".


How can I be firm, and nice at the same time When rejecting a man?




My homegirl (who is very pretty) says nice and rejection don't mix. You have to be mean to the man, or else he will keep trying. Basically, she says you have to make the man HATE you in order for him to stop liking you.


I hope this isn't my only option.


Help Please.

Tell them u have chlamydia. Or that you're moving across the country. Or that you're on your way to meet your husband at (store /restaurant near where ur at)

 

[Arishok]

I just say no thanks, if that doesn't work I get their number and ignore their texts. Hate doing that but they couldn't take a no so

 

[Blackout]

Be nice and say no thanks and if that doesn't work then be mean because it will be justified by that point

Simple as that.

 

[Dirty_Jerz]

my friend told me to pretend to be her gf when she was getting followed by hood dudes
all that did was make them go on me and hit on her harder

Why are you even hanging out at by the wolves den

 

[John Mayer]

You gon tell me no? nah you ain't

 

[SCORCH]

my sister has this problem bad since she wants to be nice but she's scared of men so she comes off super harsh
it's impossible
too nice and they continue
too firm and you're shytting all over someone who is pretty much complimenting you
you can't even say "I'm gay", this dude told me that's fine because "he can put a skirt on"
another ignored it and started talking about his dikk and started flicking his tongue near my face

you can always say you're a tranny tho

 

[Elle Driver]

No English
I'm a lesbian
I'm on probation

 

[wet landscapes]

Why are you even hanging out at by the wolves den

it wasn't even a bad neighborhood, it was right by a popular strip and almost adjacent to one of the biggest gay clubs in the city
we had our guard down so many times
dude punched my guy friend in the face once and slapped the phone out of the hand of the other