How Can I Reject Men Nicely?

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He knows better. :sas2:
So basically:

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Be nice and say no thanks and if that doesn't work then be mean because it will be justified

Simple as that.
Pretty much.

Also, don't PLAY with nikkaz (not saying YOU would, but just saying). Some don't respond well to that shyt at all....
 

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my sister has this problem bad since she wants to be nice but she's scared of men so she comes off super harsh
it's impossible
too nice and they continue
too firm and you're shytting all over someone who is pretty much complimenting you
you can't even say "I'm gay", this dude told me that's fine because "he can put a skirt on"
another ignored it and started talking about his dikk and started flicking his tongue near my face :damn::damn::damn:


you can always say you're a tranny tho :manny:
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Lol being mean? Not down here in Florida nikkas is crazy. Me and my friend had some guys follow us home after being rejected. I have a friend who actually got shot in the stomach for rejecting this guy in a bytchy way.
I try to be as nice and polite as possible usually they wont act like a complete a$$hole if you are. They might persist but i usually act like im in a hurry. Or you can do the ol telephone trick. Put a alarm in your phone to ring maybe every 15 mins or so and when it does answer it like its your man calling you. Its stupid that we have to go through this type of shyt to get some guys to leave us alone but its better than being shot in the stomach. Those times are mostly when i used to catch the bus tho. And im so nice and polite it kinda shames the guy into not acting like a jerk most time they leave laughing.
 
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I am having trouble with this.

The "I have a boyfriend" line doesn't work, and it's getting annoying.

Long story short.... I haven't always been the most beautiful girl, however weight loss and growing into my looks has changed that.


I get men who bother me more often, and I can tell immediately if someone is my type.


I try my best to be nice, but men always get mad, talk crazy about you, or simply won't accept the word "No".


How can I be firm, and nice at the same time When rejecting a man?




My homegirl (who is very pretty) says nice and rejection don't mix. You have to be mean to the man, or else he will keep trying. Basically, she says you have to make the man HATE you in order for him to stop liking you.


I hope this isn't my only option.


Help Please.
tell them politely you aren' interested. more importantly, tell all of your female friends to sort out their emotions and to stop giving guys mixed signals or to say no when they actually like the guy and just want him to pursue them some more.
 

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A lot of men take being nice and smiling as a promising sign. I still might smile out of habit sometimes but I say I have to go and leave.


In the past if they wouldn't leave me alone I take the number sometimes and never call, sometimes I give mine too even and never answer.
 

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it sucks ya'll go through this .It makes the dynamics of approaching women very cloudy and dishonest. i don't mind being rejected. it sucks but i rather hear the truth then be given a fake or a "pity" number.
 

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my sister has this problem bad since she wants to be nice but she's scared of men so she comes off super harsh
it's impossible
too nice and they continue
too firm and you're shytting all over someone who is pretty much complimenting you
you can't even say "I'm gay", this dude told me that's fine because "he can put a skirt on"
another ignored it and started talking about his dikk and started flicking his tongue near my face :damn::damn::damn:

you can always say you're a tranny tho :manny:
wow :dead:
 
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