How Can I successfully maintain a side chick??

Ashley Banks

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yeah I agree, we as men can be scumbags. However, you telling me women can't be scumbags too?? :usure:

Never said that, babycakes. I'm just being fair. If I made this thread every single reply in this thread would be an insult, yet a guy makes this thread and he gets tips on how to be a sneakier scumbag. See the problem?

men like this ruin lives and fukk up women forever, they shouldn't be getting told how to do it. If you're gonna be scum, do it on your own don't ask for help.
 

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I live w/ my girl, not cuz we finna get married or anything, but more out of convenience. Long story but we live together. Everything fine and shyt a nikka not trying to dump her, but I met this other bytch that bad as fukk. Problem is I don't think she wanna be just a jumpoff. So I gotta actually "date" her a lil bit if I wanna get that good good.
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if asked, would she say the same thing? :wtb:
 

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if asked, would she say the same thing? :wtb:

Nope, OP is probably gassing his live-in's head up as much as he bout to gas the new girl... He's a liar through and through... Ain't no woman finna move in with you and sex you off a "you are convenient" speech...

Nikka's ain't shyt but liars and hoes....
 

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so you agree that men are scumbags?

Nah, rapists and child molesters are scumbags. :whoa:

Men are just men, we gotta GTD. :ehh:

Oh, and op you fukked up by not being real about the situation from jump. Honesty is always your best policy in this shyt cuz you already have your star player. I dunno if you can rectify this cuz you goin out on dates n shyt, but yeah tell her what's what before you end up losing them both. :ufdup:
 

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Nah, rapists and child molesters are scumbags. :whoa:

Men are just men, we gotta GTD. :ehh:

Oh, and op you fukked up by not being real about the situation from jump. Honesty is always your best policy in this shyt cuz you already have your star player. I dunno if you can rectify this cuz you goin out on dates n shyt, but yeah tell her what's what before you end up losing them both. :ufdup:

so men are just fukked up? got it.

be good women so men can cheat on you and treat you like trash and say that he's just being a man, brehettes.
 

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so men are just fukked up? got it.

be good women so men can cheat on you and treat you like trash and say that he's just being a man, brehettes.

We're both fukked up, yall can be just as bad as us men. It's called being human. :yes:

And why do you call yourself and your fellow coli ladies "Brets" my sistreh?
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First of all...u be a man and give her a choice...tell her what it is from the beginning, that u have a girl but u want her...so that point forward she can't get mad at anyone but herself if she feels played

I agree, but it doesn't always end well even if you keep it real with your side piece from jump. After a while side pieces start to feel entitled and want to start movin up in the company trying to play different positions.

No side piece wants to be the side piece forever.
 

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breh, why not just leave her alone? :mindblown:

you gonna fukk up your relationship & play with another chicks emotions just because YOU want to have sex with someone? come on. Is it really worth it?

Jesus men are fukked up. :smh:

You say this as if females don't do the exact same thing :pachaha: y'all ain't any different
 

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We're both fukked up, yall can be just as bad as us men. It's called being human. :yes:

And why do you call yourself and your fellow coli ladies "Brets" my sistreh? :huh:

Pretty sure men are worse. Like @Colicat said it seems like with men "The more sadistic the more their "manhood" is applauded.".

breh = guy

brehette = girl
 

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Never said that, babycakes. I'm just being fair. If I made this thread every single reply in this thread would be an insult, yet a guy makes this thread and he gets tips on how to be a sneakier scumbag. See the problem?

men like this ruin lives and fukk up women forever, they shouldn't be getting told how to do it. If you're gonna be scum, do it on your own don't ask for help.
Are you gonna ignore the numerous posts tellin the dude not to cheat :what:
 

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Pretty sure men are worse. Like @Colicat said it seems like with men "The more sadistic the more their "manhood" is applauded.".

breh = guy

brehette = girl

Be delusional brehs. Any grimy cheating a man has done, a female has done the same thing to her man. Trust me, I know. I've smashed a lot of females that ended up having boyfriends/husbands.
 

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You say this as if females don't do the exact same thing :pachaha: y'all ain't any different

I can honestly say ive never seen/heard a female giving out tips on how to cheat/play a dude. Ever.

Are you gonna ignore the numerous posts tellin the dude not to cheat :what:

you're gonna have to read the whole thread, babe. or maybe you just quoted the wrong post. i dunno.

Be delusional brehs. Any grimy cheating a man has done, a female has done the same thing to her man. Trust me, I know. I've smashed a lot of females that ended up having boyfriends/husbands.

Ok.
 

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Bout time for ya boy to get his "Hey rookie Welcome to the NFL moment" so help a young nikka just trying to make it out chea in these streets. I got a dilemma :to:

I live w/ my girl, not cuz we finna get married or anything, but more out of convenience. Long story but we live together. Everything fine and shyt a nikka not trying to dump her, but I met this other bytch that bad as fukk. Problem is I don't think she wanna be just a jumpoff. So I gotta actually "date" her a lil bit if I wanna get that good good.

Here are some basic questions I have:

- Does a side chick know she a side chick? or does she expect to be treated like a main chick? How do you know when to tell a jumpoff that she just a jumpoff?

- Obviously can't bring this bytch back to the crib. What excuse can I make for that without saying I live w/ my parents?

- What you tell your main chick when you out with the jumpoff?

Well I feel that she isn't really a side chick if you hiding the fact that you already got a girl. You should just tell her that you are already with somebody. That might sound stupid but trust me, from experience, most women won't care if they really like you. The best advice I can give is for you to tell her in the beginning that she is a side chick. Don't let it be something that is implied. Tell her and make sure it's clear that you have a girl and all you want is p*ssy from her. If you hide the fact that you already have a girl and this side chick starts to catch feelings, you're gonna be fukked.
 
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