Why don't you fire the main the chick ?Bout time for ya boy to get his "Hey rookie Welcome to the NFL moment" so help a young nikka just trying to make it out chea in these streets. I got a dilemma
I live w/ my girl, not cuz we finna get married or anything, but more out of convenience. Long story but we live together. Everything fine and shyt a nikka not trying to dump her, but I met this other bytch that bad as fukk. Problem is I don't think she wanna be just a jumpoff. So I gotta actually "date" her a lil bit if I wanna get that good good.
Here are some basic questions I have:
- Does a side chick know she a side chick? or does she expect to be treated like a main chick? How do you know when to tell a jumpoff that she just a jumpoff?
- Obviously can't bring this bytch back to the crib. What excuse can I make for that without saying I live w/ my parents?
- What you tell your main chick when you out with the jumpoff?
How Can I successfully maintain a side chick??
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BedRoomI'z
All Money In
And usually they can't.
How would he feel if his main kicked him out of his home and moved her sideline in and he still has to pay bills there?
mcdivit85
Superstar
when this thread was made by a female the replies were a lot different.
anyways, you're gonna get caught like most men op. why not just break up with your gf and date the other girl. it's gonna happen anyways. skip all the extra stuff.
The reason women get different reactions with the "side dude" thing is because women have a much harder time simply having an ongoing sexual relationship with a man without letting it affect their emotions and therefore, their relationship at home. When a woman is continually having sex with another man, she will develop an emotional attachment towards that man even if she never plans to be with him or leave her boyfriend/husband for him.
Women tend to allow this emotional attachment to affect how they act at home.....and THAT is the biggest problem. If a woman starts to have an ongoing situation with another man, the respect and treatment that she gives her man tends to fall off. She tends to have less and less respect for her man because she knows that she is doing something wrong and deep down wants her man to check her for it. Women want leadership from their man, and if they're not being led or chastised for bad behavior, even bad behavior they consciously choose to engage in, they will start to have contempt for the man whose supposed to be leading her.
Men generally don't have this issue because they are not women and are not built like women. A man can cheat on his wife and never develop feelings strong enough for his side chick to affect his treatment of his wife based on his dealings with the side chick. If a man starts to deteriorate his feelings for his wife, its because he was feeling some type of way independent of the side chick....not as a result of the side chick. That's the difference.
Women are not built to be men, and it's sad that so many women today feel so apathetic towards their femininity that they take on some of the worse attributes of men in order to proclaim their equality. Women are not built to be players and they're not built to internalize sex the same way men do, which is why they tend to get attached moreso than men when engaging in sexual relationships.
Men and women are judged by two different sets of ideals because men and women are two different beings.
Peace
BedRoomI'z
All Money In
Basically ,which is another reason why he shouldn't be fukking around in the first place. Get your weight up first, breh. I've seen dudes at the top of their game, with their own money lose at this game your unequipped ass tryna play. Don't bite the hand that feeds u.Cause then that nikka will be homeless.
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thegreatwb
Pro
How is the best side chick a lonely woman? In my experience, the best side chick is the one with a husband/boyfriend. Basically, a chick that has just enough to lose as I do if the ship goes down. Single/lonely women like to blow up your phone at all times of day and night and want to meet up and fukk whenever it's convenient for them. A lonely woman will sit at home and get jealous quick while you out spending time with your main girl. Finally, a lonely woman can threaten to tell your main chick any time and she won't have anything to lose when doing so.
SmhCause then that nikka will be homeless.
Men can be scumbags but they're just taking advantage of a situation that women allow. I see it time and time and again where women want nikkas that have other bytches, they want what other women want. Im sure you guys are going to say this doesn't apply to you
. But I speak reality, and see this shyt with my own eyes everyday.
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Breh, how are you talking about having a side chick when you don't even have the balls to let her know she's going to the side chick?
Also, what you mean you live with your girl out of convenience? You mean you live with her out of "I can't afford my own place." I see it all the time, people date and get spots together not out of desire to share a space together.....but on some "neither of us can do it alone but we can afford this together" type sh#t. This constitutes a MAJORITY of live-in relationships, so you're not alone.
Peace
Im pretty sure dude has already made this thread or someone else just like it. If you living with a girl and are dependent on her, you might wanna get your shyt together first before you start thinking about creeping. Or at least have a backup plan if shyt goes sour :usure
You aren't on a bytch's radar until you're on another bytch's radar. Women are a testament to that word-of-mouth biz.Men can be scumbags but they're just taking advantage of a situation that women allow. I see it time and time and again where women what nikkas that have other bytches, they want what other women want. Im sure you guys are going to say this doesn't apply to you
Me and some men like the low key, exclusive, you didn't fukk her women.
A lonely side chick?
Your advice is good but a lonely chick will mess this cat up.
OP dont do it. Break up with your old lady and play the field. A lonely chick will just get attached and mess your whole world up.
A lonely side chick?
Your advice is good but a lonely chick will mess this cat up.
OP dont do it. Break up with your old lady and play the field. A lonely chick will just get attached and mess your whole world up.
It doesn't matter if she's lonely or has a s/o. This shyt can and will only end one way. How many nikkas you know have been able to maintain a successful sidechick? The real question is, is OP ready to accept the consequences once shyt inevitably hits the fan? Being that he's dependent on his current girl to provide a roof over his head, I'd say that answer is no.
saint25225
Pro
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TwistedMetal
Ruined Childhood
don't do it breh!!
psycho bytches are no joke!!
and they always turn into psychos went they feel they got played!!!
Oh I agree. I mean I was just shaking my head at the suggestion of a lonely woman. I mean I wont kid myself here, if OP cant even afford to lose his main chick because he wont be able to make rent at months end how in the hell is he supposed to maintain a side chick?
We know shyt will hit the fan and he will be living with the side chick until she tosses him into the bushes too for not being trustworthy.
Moral of the story kids, dont have side women unless you are money mayweather