How Can You Expect Someone to Cook and Clean AND Bring in 50% of the Income?

[mcdivit85]

I'll cook cuz I'm hungry and clean cuz it's dirty but I wish a nikka would DEMAND me to do something simply because I have a vagina

Would you expect things of him smply because he has a penis? Like taking out the trash, checking out the strange noise downstairs, etc.

Peace

 

[Arishok]

Would you expect things of him smply because he has a penis? Like taking out the trash, checking out the strange noise downstairs, etc.

Peace

I can take out my own trash and check for strange noises downstairs

Who you think doing that shyt when I live alone?

 

[bcrusaderw]

I can take out my own trash and check for strange noises downstairs

Who you think doing that shyt when I live alone?

And how often do you have to take out the trash and check for "strange noises"? Once or twice a week max. These dudes are really comparing that to cooking and cleaning EVERY day.

 

[mcdivit85]

Me and my girl have our own places. She takes care of her place and mine. Cooking and cleaning at both spots

I feel compassion for dudes dealing with these "what I won't do" a## chicks out here nowadays. Won't cook for him. Won't clean for him. Won't be in pocket for him. Won't do anything for him unless it benefits her. Won't. Won't. Won't.

So, I'm going to light some candles. Dress in black. Recite some chants. And pray for these n#ggas dealing with these "won't" chicks

Let us pray

Peace

 

[The Lord Doc]

I don't. Then again, I'm more rational than most.

Everything.

I want someone who is slightly less smarter than I am, who's really chill (i.e. cool with me taking the lead), quiet, needs his on space like I do, virginal, makes slightly less than I do, strictly moral, and someone who'll be my best friend. Also, I want someone who I want to bang ferociously

Why? I understand that this is your ideal mate, but you never explained why those things are important.

 

[bcrusaderw]

Me and my girl have our own places. She takes care of her place and mine. Cooking and cleaning at both spots

I feel compassion for dudes dealing with these "what I won't do" a## chicks out here nowadays. Won't cook for him. Won't clean for him. Won't be in pocket for him. Won't do anything for him unless it benefits her. Won't. Won't. Won't.

So, I'm going to light some candles. Dress in black. Recite some chants. And pray for these n#ggas dealing with these "won't" chicks

Let us pray

Peace

Disgusting. Has to pay her own bills then come and clean up after a man. You probably won't even marry her.

 

[bcrusaderw]

I don't. Then again, I'm more rational than most.



Why? I understand that this is your ideal mate, but you never explained why those things are important.

So I can be in control.

 

[mcdivit85]

Disgusting. Has to pay her own bills then come and clean up after a man. You probably won't even marry her.

Well, I damn sure wouldn't marry her if she didn't cook and clean.

Peace

 

[mcdivit85]

So I can be in control.

 

[The Lord Doc]

So I can be in control.

While I respect your honesty, you must realize that you are no different than the chauvinists that you fight with only a daily basis. You don't actually have a problem with sexism in theory, you just hate it in practice due to your sex not being in the position of dominance.

Now, it is entirely possible that I am misrepresenting your position, so if that is the case, then correct me.

 

[bcrusaderw]

While I respect your honesty, you must realize that you are no different than the chauvinists that you fight with only a daily basis. You don't actually have a problem with sexism in theory, you just hate it in practice due to your sex not being in the position of dominance.

Now, it is entirely possible that I am misrepresenting your position, so if that is the case, then correct me.

Women can't be sexist in the same way that blacks can't be racist. We can certainly be bigoted though.

 

[Tropical Fantasy]

I pretty much do all the daily cleaning and even been doing the cooking too. Pretty much catering to my girl and I make more than her. Am I doing it wrong?

is your girl a dime?

 

[Tropical Fantasy]

I really don't see what's wrong with that list.

depends, what do you bring to the table?

what does box 1 of your W2 say?

 

[The Lord Doc]

Women can't be sexist in the same way that blacks can't be racist. We can certainly be bigoted though.

I'm aware (I'd rather avoid the tired semantical debate for the sake of discussion). My point is that if the positions of power were reversed, then you would have no problem with sexism. You're certainly entitled to feel however you like, but your bigoted point of view makes it a bit difficult to take your black women empowerment rhetoric seriously (I'm sure that you don't care).

 

[bcrusaderw]

I'm aware (I'd rather avoid the tired semantical debate for the sake of discussion). My point is that if the positions of power were reversed, then you would have no problem with sexism. You're certainly entitled to feel however you like, but your bigoted point of view makes it a bit difficult to take your black women empowerment rhetoric seriously (I'm sure that you don't care).

On the contrary, I think it makes it known that I am pro-woman above all else, which would coincide with my views about the empowerment of black women.