How can you not tell if you good looking lmao

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I swear I can pull pretty much any chick so long as I dont try which is confusing to me. Seems like if I'm doing the pursuing it never works out for me.

Maybe I just dont have game? :yeshrug:
 

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While most say they didn't get attention from girls till adulthood Ironically girls started liking me in grade school (though i wasn't keen enough to pick up on it at tha time) but i never had tha self esteem to capitalize, so most girls thought i was stuck up and here we are now. Tha fact tht i got a weight problem don't help me none neither. Tbh I've always been big but my height offset tht (was 5'8 in tha 5th grade)
 

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Problem with all of this is attraction is a completely different ball game. There's dudes that fit the above criteria that can STILL be called ugly or unattractive. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

Ther'e good looking folk out there that feel they're ugly and ugly folk that feel they're good looking. It's a weird dynamic. Ugly folk get holla'd at.

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Growing up in NYC where 95% of the women were superficial af, being financially ugly, use to always fukk with my self esteem.
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Once I moved to another state, p*ssy was being thrown at me left and right, added to my pipe game and I was Gucci. I didn't know I was that damn handsome. I've fukked 9's and 10's with money and cut them off once they started asking me about my "goals". Now I got my weight up on the financial added to the physical spectrum so I'm a cold hearted pos.
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I swear I can pull pretty much any chick so long as I dont try which is confusing to me. Seems like if I'm doing the pursuing it never works out for me.

Maybe I just dont have game? :yeshrug:
nikka it's called gettin chose :russ:

and yess you have no game
 

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This stuff is complicated. There's conventional good looking (i.e. young Denzel movie star good looks) and then there is the unconventional offbeat shyt (being "ruggedly" handsome). Movie star good looks get you a lot of p*ssy, especially when you're young. When women are at their most impressionable, they all want a dude who looks like their favorite celebrity.

That offbeat shyt starts to work like magic once you're in your late twenties and beyond. And it's not just because women of a certain age have lower standards. If you take care of yourself physically, dress in ways that complement your looks, you can eat like crazy by looking different. I've seen it happen with a lot of my friends. The dudes who couldn't get non-crackhead p*ssy at 15/16 were pulling 9s and 10s at 30. They hit the gym, they made sure they groomed themselves well and they thrived off of a forward/aggressive personality.

I never cultivated that sort of shyt because it came too easy to me as a kid. So by the time I was 30, they were pulling more than I was in the club. Women aren't checking as much for a 30 year old on some pretty boy shyt lol.
Bro cuz when you get older you have more shyt to offer women and more women stop acting immature.
Young girls think they can fukk around and treat guys like shyt and they are expendable but older girls know looks don't last forever and they running out of time to find a dude so they are a bit more serious in tryna keep a dude
 

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This. Women got a scale
Fine af but his type ain't feeling me
Fine af and his type like me. Dime
Cute
Cute but ain't my type
He iight
Meh/I don't know what yall see in that nikka
Naw
Hell naw

That's their scale.

If you in the meh category, you really in the naw category but too many chicks around her hyped on you so she gave you a point or two.

Naw and lower, you ain't getting p*ssy from her. Forget it.

man just simplify things.Either she finds you attractive or she finds you to be unattractive.But compatibility is what complicates things.
 

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Nah women be on some complicated shyt..

For some women you can be too attractive...

yeah I get that point and I understand the whole being intimidated thing to a certain degree but those women are also insecure and that is what complicates things. Because they assume,they generalize and build up expectations

"Oh he is attractive and successful he must be a womanizer" "or he must be into pawgs" "he has no car he must be broke"
 

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Bro cuz when you get older you have more shyt to offer women and more women stop acting immature.
Young girls think they can fukk around and treat guys like shyt and they are expendable but older girls know looks don't last forever and they running out of time to find a dude so they are a bit more serious in tryna keep a dude

It's not just that. I think what women are attracted to when it comes to older men changes. It's not just about growing up and valuing stability. The aesthetic itself changes. Young women are into that pretty boy shyt for the most part. Dudes who are classically handsome. Older women, or young women who fukk with older dudes find a dude with a rugged look (even some visible battle scars) more physically appealing. They like dudes with a story. That's why I'm saying that dudes who think they're ugly need to be patient and work on their health/personal appearance, but not get too negative because their time will come.
 

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I know this advice sounds cliche as fukk but hit the the damn gym
If yo body right you gettin women on a primal level so they gonna check you out
Gym only goes so far. You'd do better to invest in your face. Skin, hair, teeth. Gym wise all you really need to do is stay in the normal BMI range and fix your posture if its shytty. A dude with a good face and normal body is going to do a lot better than a dude with a shytty face and nice body. Your face is on display all the time, people cant see your 6 pack with your shirt on.
 
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