How coli expect women to pay half, but hate career women?

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Aight..

Idk man..

For me, I DON'T want to pay all the bills. The COL is too high for that....

Traditional relationships are cool for those who want them, but I think all parties involved have to be groomed or raised/trained to take on such an arrangement...

Can't speak on what the Coli want, but for me, I don't expect 50/50, but I wouldn't do 100%. Not these days!

Unless someone can guarantee that marriages will last a lifetime, no infidelity, no letting one's physique go, no abuse, 100% cooperation, fire meals everyday, spotless home, access to sex including penetration all holes, then traditional relationships isn't the way to go...

I don't want the wife working for another man. Sounds insecure, but I'm not I'd rather support her in building her own business and she doesn't have to deal with Corporate America.

Are you married? If both y'all work what time y'all get home and eat dinner?

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

There are two types of men on the coli

1. The kind who need to feel like they're in charge all the time and don't want their wife to work. They want to 'lead' her and have her 'submit' to his authority. He feels the need to call all the shots.

2. The kind who expect the woman to be on his wavelength, collaborate with him and contribute to a project and life they create together.

Man 1 hates career women.
Man 2 refuses to be with any woman who doesn't have a career.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Not everyone hates career women.

My wife makes a good amount of money (6fig) and her job has never gotten in the way of our relationship.

I paid 100% of the dates that i planned when we dated. And she paid 100% of the dates she planned.


Sometimes i feel like we overcomplicate the simplest shyt. If the girl you date doesnt move how you like financially, just get rid of her

Kevin Samuel's wants coli brehs to marry bartenders just cause shes size 4

 

[TEH]

Can’t speak for anyone else but all that matters is if she’s a dime or close to it and if she’s actually raised with some sense …

 

[Action Mike]

I think there a difference between a women that has a career and a one who leads with it arrogantly i.e. a career woman

On finance brehs talk based off their situation, if you can't finance a home by yourself (which increasingly is the case these days) yeah you'll talking about spliting

 

[Commish]

I don't want the wife working for another man. Sounds insecure, but I'm not I'd rather support her in building her own business and she doesn't have to deal with Corporate America.

Are you married? If both y'all work what time y'all get home and eat dinner?

Not married..

I am in a relationship, but my lady don't wanna be a stay @ home wife. I don't want a stay @ home wife either..

As long as you and your future wife want the same thing and is willing to commit to your roles, duties & responsibilities in said relationship then cool..

Traditional relationships isn't for everyone and modern relationships isn't for everyone.

 

[BrehWyatt]

For men who hate career women, I believe the sentiment they hold has nothing to do with women having a career.

 

[Knuckles Red]

What a lot of men here want is the white man's status. That is what they desire the most.

 

[Prince.Skeletor]

first of all what is a career woman?
How come nobody says 'career man'?

 

[KyokushinKarateMan]

first of all what is a career woman?
How come nobody says 'career man'?

 

[Leao2005]

first of all what is a career woman?
How come nobody says 'career man'?

Fred

 

[MajesticLion]

Versatility is essential.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

It’s just negative perceptions touted by insecure individuals. The men I’ve ever encountered not only cared about my job and education but spending habits, credit and everything. Because they had shyt to lose and didn’t wanna play Captain Save a Hoe.

When the reality of your success outweighs the specter of your insecurities, it’s probably because you are trying to build a legacy and you can’t do that investing in women with poor returns.
But honestly I’ve never understood the hoopla around this topic. People just need to do what works for them.

 

[Commish]

It’s just negative perceptions touted by insecure individuals. The men I’ve ever encountered not only cared about my job and education but spending habits, credit and everything. Because they had shyt to lose and didn’t wanna play Captain Save a Hoe.

When the reality of your success outweighs the specter of your insecurities, it’s probably because you are trying to build a legacy and you can’t do that investing in women with poor returns.
But honestly I’ve never understood the hoopla around this topic. People just need to do what works for them.

Great post! But, social media plays a part on why this topic is a big hoopla for some people.

To support your stance, in real life, there are people out there who isn't out to get over on someone. However, there are people out there who are, so...

People just need to get with people who is share similar or complimentary relationship goals..