How come black men dont hide their preference for lightskin/white women

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Just out of curiosity why did you list the dark characteristic along with fat women, single mothers, hair hats, and women with attitudes. All of these are seen as undesirable traits universally. :sas2:

Yes. They're seen as undesirable, universally. But, Black men aren't allowed to voice that they don't like those things.

We get thrown under the bus if we do. White men have no problem saying they don't like fat chicks. White women just have to learn to adjust. Black men on the other hand get accused of fat-shaming because most of our women are heavier than average. So, they don't want to feel left out.
 
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nikkas want kids that look nothing like them. They've been taught white is right and they trying to get right.

nikkas don't want kids like that...nikkas like variety. Some nikkas wanna try something new...and some nikkas are mad as hell and think IR dating is the cure for the ether.
 

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the issue isnt dating lightskined people

the issue is black dudes have serious colorism issues and refuse to admit it

and even when they do.....its like they don't do it properly---they' dont change their ways

its like....."oh hey i only like lightskin people.....so?"

then got the nerve to preach about the black community and we need to be doing.

not even bothering to practice what they preach.

and then those same dudes wonder why darkskinn girls date white guys!?

cause black dudes aint checking for them beyond sex.

Well,colorism exists. That doesn't mean we shouldn't preach change. Also, black dudes like black females the most of all peoples, praise, marry black females, etc the most of all peoples. When they don't, it's because of white society norms imposed by cacs . So the same cacs you say "dark skin girls date b/c black dudes ain't checking for them" are the ones who impose the standards which put black people on the bottom. As such, it's mystifying to hear some dark skin girls date about dating white guys, since cacs obviously doesn't check for yall and cac society doesn't either. cacs like dark skin girls least of like all women and aren't checking for dark skin girls on any tip but a sex one, but somehow black men are all to blame. It's black men that are the ones that hold black women in highest esteem and give black women platforms. There are no other groups who do so anywhere in the world. You have everything upside down and are blaming the wrong people. :dead:
 
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Yes. They're seen as undesirable, universally. But, Black men aren't allowed to voice that they don't like those things.

We get thrown under the bus if we do. White men have no problem saying they don't like fat chicks. White women just have to learn to adjust. Black men on the other hand get accused of fat-shaming because most of our women are heavier than average. So, they don't want to feel left out.

I understand what you are saying but you mean to tell me that it is not odd that a black man who comes from a historically dark race states that he does not date dark women of his own race? I do think black men are shamed for not wanting to date fat women, single mothers, broke chicks or chicks who do not have their shyt together. However comparing a black man REFUSING to date a dark woman with REFUSING to date a fat, single mother "hair-hat" is not really comparable. If you want to throw the excuse out that it's a preference then go ahead...but even that preference is based on white supremacy. I'm not saying that a black man has to date a dark woman or a black woman for that matter....it's just weird when you can exclude your race from your dating pool. Also being fat, a single mother, a hair hat, attitude having woman is something that women can help...you can't really help if your dark. Preference is heavily influenced by culture.

As far as white men getting away with things in this country, well they write the rules. It does not mean we should aspire to be like them because if you haven't noticed they have committed their fair share of world atrocities. White men will always bend rules as they see fit, it's part of white supremacy....but let's not start the b.b.b.b.b.but white men get away with argument.
 

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There are far more black women on youtube doing that same thing. You can't compare a roar to a whisper. fukking woman logic. It's not logic because it makes you feel right. You have to actually be right...We live in a majority rules country...who ever has the loudest voice has the only voice.

Stop trying to argue with me. That wasn't my point at all and I'm not trying to go there.
 

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:what:

If anything Black Men get chastised the most for having preferences outside their own.

They get chastised by black women, they get chastised by white men, hell they get it from their own militant brothers.

The only ones who catch more flack might be black women and even then I still think black men got it the worst :skip:

When other races do this, no one gives a fukk except for a few salty individuals of the same race different gender.

Edit: Just get on Twitter or Facebook and you can tell.

White Girl: There's just something about black dudes :wub:

Everybody: That's nice :skip:

Black Guy: I do love me some snowbunnies.

Everybody: How can you not love you're own race, self-hating c00n :smh:

Black Men can't even say they like a light-skin 100% BLACK woman without the backlash. Even a black woman can state what shade she would like her man to be without getting stones thrown at her.

Where do y'all come up with these theories :skip:

:myman:
 

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the issue isnt dating lightskined people

the issue is black dudes have serious colorism issues and refuse to admit it

and even when they do.....its like they don't do it properly---they' dont change their ways

its like....."oh hey i only like lightskin people.....so?"

then got the nerve to preach about the black community and we need to be doing.

not even bothering to practice what they preach.

and then those same dudes wonder why darkskinn girls date white guys!?

cause black dudes aint checking for them beyond sex.

And black chicks don't do the same thing? :dead:
 
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