How come lightskin women aren't...

[KOOL-AID]

held to the same accountability of colorism in darkskin bm and lightskin bw relationships. its always the ds nikka fault, he glorifies lightbrites, self hate, bbb..but his momma dark or whatever else them septum piercing (get em) shae butter smotherin (got damn), bitter/delusion (ayo he wildin) ladies say when the subject matter is brought. they act like lightskin women aren't attracted to dark brothas and seek them out or something its very perplexing; lets discuss it.

@Prima Donna @Lady.Libra. @PeridotPuss @Paradise and other high yellow coli ladies

 

[A1aaa]

woah, what a profound take... it's gonna take me a couple hours for my brain to process this

coli intellectuals™ really on a tear tonight...

 

[MaxPain]

Cuz they are not men. Ive seen the same with darkskin women only shooting for lightskin brehs which is alot of them. Women dont like rejection but will reject all day. Dating with colorism is so miniscule I swear it should just be scrapped alltogether. Colorism when it comes to jobs, police, how u are treated is alot more important than who wants to fukk u. Go check for who checks for u.

Id love for all women especially black women to have high self esteem but lets be honest, most women of all races dont. So worrying about who does or doesnt want to fukk u is a you problem. Not everyone elses problem

Now if a man disrespects dark or even light (cuz alotta dudes think its cool to call em piss colored) then thats where I have issues.
Now here comes the fukkery

 

[KOOL-AID]

Cuz they are not men. Ive seen the same with darkskin women only shooting for lightskin brehs which is alot of them. Women dont like rejection but will reject all day. Dating with colorism is so miniscule I swear it should just be scapped alltogether. Colorism when it comes to jobs, police, how u are treated is alot more important than who wants to fukk u. Go check for who checks for u.

Now here comes the fukkery

preach to them papi

 

[bl2k8]

Cuz they are not men. Ive seen the same with darkskin women only shooting for lightskin brehs which is alot of them. Women dont like rejection but will reject all day. Dating with colorism is so miniscule I swear it should just be scrapped alltogether. Colorism when it comes to jobs, police, how u are treated is alot more important than who wants to fukk u. Go check for who checks for u.

Id love for all women especially black women to have high self esteem but lets be honest, most women of all races dont. So worrying about who does or doesnt want to fukk u is a you problem. Not everyone elses problem

Now if a man disrespects dark or even light (cuz alotta dudes think its cool to call em piss colored) then thats where I have issues.
Now here comes the fukkery

Close thread. Alotta of these chicks have taken colorism and made it solely about not getting chose in regards to dating/sex.

 

[Aphrodite]

I love dark skinned men. But I have no idea.
It's easier to blame dark skinned people for morality (folks are assuming more Black) I guess.

 

[GodsPerspective]

held to the same accountability of colorism in darkskin bm and lightskin bw relationships. its always the ds nikka fault, he glorifies lightbrites, self hate, bbb..but his momma dark or whatever else them septum piercing (get em) shae butter smotherin (got damn), bitter/delusion (ayo he wildin) ladies say when the subject matter is brought. they act like lightskin women aren't attracted to dark brothas and seek them out or something its very perplexing; lets discuss it.

@Prima Donna @Lady.Libra. @PeridotPuss @Paradise and other high yellow coli ladies

Women in general are not held to the same standards as men

You can't really blame them. It's just how the world works. They are treated like children their whole lives by society as a whole ( great example is if two people get drunk and fukk. Who will take responsibility for sexual assault if the issue arises, the guy or the girl?)

All you can do is train your girl and your daughter's to be accountable and responsible members of society.

 

[Aphrodite]

I've shared this before but my mother's father is colorist and he told me that he didnt want me to be with a dark skinned man. He told my mom when he visited us he was happy she didn't get with a dark skinned man and how beautiful I came out. I eventually cut him off because he was always negative and bringing up skin tones. I told my mom I didn't want to speak to him on the phone or see him again.

 

[KOOL-AID]

I love dark skinned men. But I have no idea.
It's easier to blame dark skinned people for morality (folks are assuming more Black) I guess.

i think that's the main thing right there, for some reason we super melanin enhanced people are seen as worse compared to lighter complexions and its not just with dating preferences but alot of other stuff its fukked up and hurts.

 

[idonttouchgrass]

preach to them papi

 

[BLΔCK⁂W⊙LF]

I love dark skinned men. But I have no idea.
It's easier to blame dark skinned people for morality (folks are assuming more Black) I guess.

How many dark skin men have you dated?

 

[Aphrodite]

How many dark skin men have you dated?

Most of my exes are brown skinned and dark.

 

[BaeLuh]

I've always dated the lightskinned/mixed brothas so I'm good lol. But it's true I know so many other light skinned black women who will degrade tf out of a light skinned black man just because she prefers darker men. My dad is a light bright, so I would never.

 

[KOOL-AID]

I've shared this before but my mother's father is colorist and he told me that he didnt want me to be with a dark skinned man. He told my mom when he visited us he was happy she didn't get with a dark skinned man and how beautiful I came out. I eventually cut him off because he was always negative and bringing up skin tones. I told my mom I didn't want to speak to him on the phone or see him again.

is he also light himself?

 

[010101]

people get caught up
conditioned to see lighter complexions as inherently attractive
and deeper complexions as unattractive

but at the same time some folk push back in a retarded way
they hate light skin folk
and act like deeper complexioned folks can't be straight uggamuggas

people are dumb jajajahahaa

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