This. Most dimes I know are getting hit and quitted on by fine, usually rich dudes while they are young; when they reach mid to late twenties and the pressure to get married and start a family begins weighing down on them, they will marry a financially safe, funny-looking, boring ass dude -- that is if they don't have shyt for brains, in which case they keep chasing them playas 'til they're well into their thirties. The thing is, the playas aren't going to settle down with them, they can fukk a different dime every week. It's the old boring, financially safe dude that will raise his hands in prayer and thank the high heavens that he managed to wife a dime and hold her down.