"How come straight Black men don't hang out with masculine lesbians...

[generic-username]

like the way straight Black women hang out with flamboyant, feminine gay men'. This was a question my sister asked me the other day. I know a lot of Black women with one or more super flamboyant gay friend, but i have never met a straight Black man who has a masculine butch lesbian friend.

Even at my gym we have two Mannie Fresh looking lesbians who try to mingle with the guys but majority of the guys are like around them.

 

[1 other person]

Ive met some lesbians that like to hang out with men. I dont see too many men hanging around them like that tho. Its funny to talk to a butch lez about other females. Like when you talking about another woman's ass or t*ts and they are into the conversation.

 

[@OffHalsted]

Every hood got "snoop" type dykes running around

 

[Mandarin Duck]

Every hood got "snoop" type dykes running around

For real.

I've seen plenty of butch lesbians hanging out with dudes.

 

[cjlaw93]

They do

 

[Marti]

Every single stud i know has a male best friend.

But im from the hood so it might be different somewhere else

 

[Rollo Goodlove]

nikkas don't like nikka bytches

 

[killacal]

nikkas don't like nikka bytches

Other way around with me
They can't fake being masculine

 

[AintNoCrampInYaMouthTho]

What? They do. Where you be at b?

 

[Ohene]

for the most part men have nothing to gain from a friendship with a woman...masculine nor feminine.

ive never heard a dude say i dont get a long with nikkas and all my friends are girls. however i've heard plenty women say they dont like girls and hang with dudes. what does that tell you?

 

[The Lyon King]

Because.......I'd fukk her too

 

[nahnah]

Lesbians are straight men.

 

[MillionMills]

Because lesbians are women and grown men aren't out here seeking for friendship with women they aren't sleeping or planning to sleep with

 

[get these nets]

for the most part men have nothing to gain from a friendship with a woman...masculine nor feminine.

agree. I attended magnet schools growing up, % of Black guys was always low so I spent more time in rooms full of females than any hetero guy ever should. Picked up a lot of insight though.

Women are SO competitive with other women that it's funny, and would explain why they would have (flamboyantly)gay male friends. It's like non alcoholic beer or a veggie burger. A faux girlfriend...same interests but not a threat to her.

 

[King of Creampies]

I doubt I would meet any gay person who would hang out with me much less in my late 30's you aren't going to pick up new friends like it's Diablo 2 and you don't want to solo Act 4 alone.

But then again I would befriend a gay POC long before I would befriend a white gay person.