How come these people with these so called "preferences" look terrible themselves.

[agnosticlady]

Reminds me of the homeless dude I offered to buy mc Donalds and he told me he didn't eat that and wanted wendys.

LMAO...when I was 18 and just got off at work I ran into a homeless lady at a near by Checkers/Rallys. I wanted their ice cream for a $1 and the bottle of water. The homeless woman tells me that she is hungry me and begs me to buy her food. I tell her that I will buy her the chicken box with fries and a bottle of water so that she can refill it. She looks at me like and ask's for the double cheese bugger with large fries and a large root beer . I was like sure this may be the best meal she has had in a while.

A week later she comes into my store with a fresh hair cut, new clothes, new sneakers, and buys a bunch of stuff

 

[agnosticlady]

I don't look at mirrors fam...

Lol oh hush


But real talk @Ness has a point. The young woman that I mentioned earlier in this thread refused to change herself or look in the mirror. Her sisters tried to change her look, but like I said she resembles a female Don Chido with barely any edges. Her hygiene was not the best yet she felt like she had a right to swerve people in a disrespectful way


Also @Ness I believe that people are afraid to look in the mirror, because then they have to admit that there is something wrong with them and make a change.

 

[Tetsuo]

Yes....very unreasonable...I mean unless you are allergic to people who do not wear glasses......

I'm not allergic to people who don't wear glasses, but most of the girls I talked to in college(the ones I was trying to get serious with) wore glasses. Now I'm like next the next girl I get with has to wear glasses.

 

[Gold]

Lol oh hush


But real talk @Ness has a point. The young woman that I mentioned earlier in this thread refused to change herself or look in the mirror. Her sisters tried to change her look, but like I said she resembles a female Don Chido with barely any edges. Her hygiene was not the best yet she felt like she had a right to swerve people in a disrespectful way


Also @Ness I believe that people are afraid to look in the mirror, because then they have to admit that there is something wrong with them and make a change.

You right...


Swerving disrespectfully is not something I would ever support. Even if she was a dime.

I cannot justify that shyt ever.

 

[SunGod]

LMAO...when I was 18 and just got off at work I ran into a homeless lady at a near by Checkers/Rallys. I wanted their ice cream for a $1 and the bottle of water. The homeless woman tells me that she is hungry me and begs me to buy her food. I tell her that I will buy her the chicken box with fries and a bottle of water so that she can refill it. She looks at me like and ask's for the double cheese bugger with large fries and a large root beer . I was like sure this may be the best meal she has had in a while.

A week later she comes into my store with a fresh hair cut, new clothes, new sneakers, and buys a bunch of stuff

 

[Sk3ptical]

 

[Yinny]

Me I'll fukk anything

You ain't alone on that. But let "people" tell it broads beating down their door to get in their beds. Unsolicited, of course.

 

[Ness]

Lol oh hush


But real talk @Ness has a point. The young woman that I mentioned earlier in this thread refused to change herself or look in the mirror. Her sisters tried to change her look, but like I said she resembles a female Don Chido with barely any edges. Her hygiene was not the best yet she felt like she had a right to swerve people in a disrespectful way


Also @Ness I believe that people are afraid to look in the mirror, because then they have to admit that there is something wrong with them and make a change.

U preachin.

But why u keep on sayin Don Chido

 

[MalikReloaded]

I'm not picky at all. I just want the female equivalent of myself.


No kids.
Has a career.
Has a degree or working towards one.
Is financially responsible.
Cute. Not drop dead gorgeous but, cute.
In shape. Not a banging body but, relatively in shape.
Not a hoe.
Loyal.
Can cook.
Has goals and things she's extremely passionate about. Real passions. Not shopping and watching Love & Hip Hop.
Likes to read.


That's not a lot and I'm all of those things

 

[Bless't]

I'm not picky at all. I just want the female equivalent of myself.


No kids.
Has a career.
Has a degree or working towards one.
Is financially responsible.
Cute. Not drop dead gorgeous but, cute.
In shape. Not a banging body but, relatively in shape.
Not a hoe.
Loyal.
Can cook.
Has goals and things she's extremely passionate about. Real passions. Not shopping and watching Love & Hip Hop.
Likes to read.


That's not a lot and I'm all of those things

 

[Playa With Tha Passport]

I don't know what some of these preference brehs looks like, @Playa With Tha Passport let's see what you look like?

Why u mentioning me for tho ?

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

LMAO...when I was 18 and just got off at work I ran into a homeless lady at a near by Checkers/Rallys. I wanted their ice cream for a $1 and the bottle of water. The homeless woman tells me that she is hungry me and begs me to buy her food. I tell her that I will buy her the chicken box with fries and a bottle of water so that she can refill it. She looks at me like and ask's for the double cheese bugger with large fries and a large root beer . I was like sure this may be the best meal she has had in a while.

A week later she comes into my store with a fresh hair cut, new clothes, new sneakers, and buys a bunch of stuff

 

[joeychizzle]

What if you want your experiences to be limited?

This thread confuses me.



If you are monogamous, picking a life partner is going to be the single most discriminating task you embark in throughout your life. There is nothing honorable or praiseworthy about lowering your standards. That benefits no one in the long run. If you want something, do what you have to do get it. Don't settle.



If I want to marry a 5'9+ Igbo girl with at least 2 degrees and a traditionalist view of family, I'm not going to apologize for chasing after a specific demographic

It's just my 2 cents breh. You could totally ignore my opinion and stick with one type

I'm just saying it's good to have a mix of dark chocolate light chocolate brownies custard and vanilla

 

[intruder]

I think she is saying that some people demand and require these things with a snotty attitude yet they themselves do not have much to bring to the table. It would be like Flavor Flav without his fame and money demanding that any girl he gives the time of day physically embody Beyonce or Ashanti. Then saying he does not deal with any woman who does not look like Meagan Good or better. The same for a woman. She may be in $60,000+ debt from student loans, out of shape, and only make $38,000 after taxes yet is demanding that ONLY professional men over 6'2" who make $70,000+ a year come her way then say she will not deal with any man that makes less than $65,000.

I think that we can all want nice things , but I guess OP is speaking on the way people go about requesting them.

Honestly im fine with someone wanting something that is better than what they are/have as long as they understand that that person may feel the same way (ie Chick making $38K wants man making $75K but that man wants a woman making $100K)

But yeah i have no problem with that at all. We all have the right to WANT what we WANT. As long as you dont belittle those who dont meet your criterias as if they are less than you. Criterias and preferences are what they are.

• If you like chicks with big booties then thats what you like. Noone should tell you that you should settle for flat butted chick.
  
• If you like chicks with careers and good jobs then thats what you like. Noone should tell you that you should settle for Shaquanda or Marie-Sue or Adriana whos working as cashier at the Wal-Mart even if you're the one bagging the sh!t she's ringing up.

That is what YOU LIKE. But again, back to my first sentence: what you like may not like you back. I have a bachelors degree in engineering and while i'd love to wife a doctor i understand that a chick who's a doctor may be looking for a surgeon or astronaut. So all the sudden Shaquanda at the walmart who would toss my salad in a heartbeat may get a call on a slow night.