How common is hearing "Hey handsome/ sexy"?

[Paradise]

I've been told I'm handsome or cute a bunch never sexy though.




I also assumed a woman telling your handsome was a pity compliment, have I been wrong about this my whole life.

Yep you are. Now I have told an ugly dude he was handsome because I didn't want to hurt his feelings…

 

[eufemism]

Yep you are. Now I have told an ugly dude he was handsome because I didn't want to hurt his feelings…

 

[concise]

It's often used as a safe, low-risk sign when friends are trying to gauge the other person's interest.

Easily played off as "just kidding "

 

[Free White & 21]

Women are not usually verbal about their attraction to you. If you know the signs they "say" it more often than most brehs think
I think you ugly brehs may be missing the signs and not giving yourselves enough credit

 

[ALonelyDad]

"Hey sweetheart" from white women over 40