How could you want a child that looks nothing like you?

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Maybe you and he have different ideas and beliefs when wanting a relationship and raising children.

Like if the other father is not a issue or in the picture....whats really the problem?
Yea I've admitted a number of times he's a much better dude than me when it comes to this, cause I don't think I could cope. Lil man was about 3 when they met and is approaching 9 now. The father is somewhat around, but he sees much more of my homie than his actual father. For now no problems but he does worry about when the shorty starts hitting those teen years, cause that's when kids who interested in their biological parents tend to want to start reaching out to them.
 
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I only date black women ( No exceptions). I would prefer American women tho; however Other nationalities is okay.

Common said it best.
" Black men walking wit white girls on they arms
I be mad at 'em as if I know they mom's
Told to go beyond the surface a person's a person
When we lessen our women our condition seems to worsen"

:salute:Black women!

EXACTLY how i feel. Black Women forever:blessed:
 

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Another passive aggressive, "Desire me," thread.
This wouldn't plague any of your minds if you could actually catch affection and attention from desirable members of the opposite sex offline.
:dead:

You always use this as some sort of anti- speak out retort... Might I ask...

How come you have so much time to clock someone else's time spent speaking out?

If you actually caught the attention and affection of your Asian girl, how come you have enough time and energy to spend online criticizing a Black woman's online habits?

You know, if we were using your own logic and such...
 

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You always use this as some sort of anti- speak out retort... Might I ask...

How come you have so much time to clock someone else's time spent speaking out?

If you actually caught the attention and affection of your Asian girl, how come you have enough time and energy to spend online criticizing a Black woman's online habits?

You know, if we were using your own logic and such...
He only with her cuz he cant have a Black woman.
 

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This thread makes no sense.

If the kid is your biological kid, then it's gonna have exactly half your genes and look exactly half like you no matter what race the mother is.

Unless you only getting with women who look like you because they already share some of your genes. :scust:


On the other hand, if you've adopted a kid who needs a family, then of course it ain't gonna look like you unless it's your brother's kid or something. But huge props to anyone who adopts a kid who needs a father. :salute:
 

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To be a female on this site and be in the red means alot.

Do better :dead:.
Not really. I'm sure most of is have been in the red at some point

To each his own :manny:

But if a woman doesn't need to wrap her hair up at nite with bobby pins and shyt she ain't for me
:lupe: What about a black woman that doesn't wrap her hair up at night?
Are you team #nonaturals?
damn


what does that even mean? what's wrong with wanting good looking children?
Nothing wrong with wanting good looking children. The problem is you feel you need to date out in order to have attractive children.
I look nothing like my father and both of my parentsare black. Explain that.
what does the mail man look like? :lupe:
 
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