How df do women keep getting themselves into these situations?(Am i victim blaming ?)

[Diddly Drogba]

Well you know what they say about making assumptions. They couldve been married and had children over a 20 year period as far as I know. Crazy i will be called a simp and panderer. Meanwhile yall have no issue with blindly labeling so many black men as bad people who were "bad choices". This man may have a stable job,been a decent boyfriend/husband while in the household. Doesnt mean he is helping enough now that he isnt in the household. Rather he has good reasons he cant make time or not. I just see a lack of empathy with a woman who has your child and is clearly breaking down.

Your narrative may be correct,but im sticking to what i know. Relationships are usually more complex than yall can grasp. Amd people devolve as these relationships unravel. Yall believe this is the case for women,but not with men for some reason.


Edit-she only said to pick up his son,meaning only one child is his. If he was willing to play stepdaddy to 4 other kids at any given point. I doubt he was all bad as yall claiming. Isnt that simping according to yall?

This is what they women you're defending think about you

(Straight) Black men are the weak link in the black community and I don't know why the truth hurts so badly.

They are weak links. They use their forums to discuss Ice Spice's ass. Their colorism, ignorance, lack of education, and lack of money and protection for black women render them ineligible and invalid. I don't think black women should be fighting for them -- at all. Let them do something...

www.lipstickalley.com

 

[ThrobbingHood]

I’ve smashed a few hoodrats… one close call was enough to make me allergic to them. Thank god I didn’t seed any up.

 

[UnQuantized]

Most of these women know better but choose this path anyway. In 2025 it's a diminishing minority who truly end up in fukked up positions through no fault of their own and I am being kind

 

[Strapped]

TikTok - Make Your Day

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TikTok - Make Your Day

 

[KingFreeman]

Uggamugga funky ass women that let every dude hit and conceive kids in gangbangs and shyte like that are overreprrsented in this. Like the overcompensation for their looks is the driving force.

 

[RedCloakBlackWraithe]

All that for a few minutes of lust creating a lifetime of depression

Hope she don’t hurt them kids being in the state she’s in now.

shoulda just shook his dice. or really just wore a lambskin condom, feels just like coochie minus the textures of the coochie walls swallowed*

 

[The War Report]

I never understood women giving birth to children to men who don't want to have them with them.

 

[number21]

Do y'all think women are capable of making good decisions without a man's guidance?

Nah. Not the majority of them, especially when they're under 45.

 

[2 Up 2 Down]

Biitches looking for love and nikkas selling dreams, A tale as old as time.

Yup, I'm guessing he is much older since she mentions his age so she probably thought he was going to be more stable

 

[2 Up 2 Down]

This is what they women you're defending think about you

(Straight) Black men are the weak link in the black community and I don't know why the truth hurts so badly.

They are weak links. They use their forums to discuss Ice Spice's ass. Their colorism, ignorance, lack of education, and lack of money and protection for black women render them ineligible and invalid. I don't think black women should be fighting for them -- at all. Let them do something...

www.lipstickalley.com

That's like using thecoli as a credible reference on how black men think about black women

 

[richaveli83]

No excuse in this millennium to have this many children out of wedlock with multiple men. There's multiple forms of birth control available so the excuse that it makes you sick doesn't fly.

 

[AAKing23]

I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again, I love my people, I swear but black people born after the crack era are RETARDED AF when it comes to sex/choosing partners to procreate with…. Bytches act like they don’t know what birth control is and nikkas act like they don’t know how to pull out…. Never ending cycle…

Contrary to popular belief, women fukk anything too not just men

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

This is what they women you're defending think about you

(Straight) Black men are the weak link in the black community and I don't know why the truth hurts so badly.

They are weak links. They use their forums to discuss Ice Spice's ass. Their colorism, ignorance, lack of education, and lack of money and protection for black women render them ineligible and invalid. I don't think black women should be fighting for them -- at all. Let them do something...

www.lipstickalley.com

I've has plenty of black women wanting me, so I'm not so sure what lsa is talking about

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

I’ve smashed a few hoodrats… one close call was enough to make me allergic to them. Thank god I didn’t seed any up.

What was bad about them? Just hoes with attitudes

 

[KidJSoul]

Are the kids from the same man? Or do they have different fathers