How did having a girlfriend impact your finances?

[LinusCaldwell]

that mean?

Means you need to be able to take care of yourself

 

[Cynic]

Plus she has those student loans to pay off so you can be the man and pay all the bills and rent and meanwhile she can pay off a great chunk from her loans and find a cert breh if things do not work.

This is where all the 6 figure brehs realize they let their egos lull them in a trap with no exit.

Now you are responsible for the mortgage, all utility bills, her credit card debts, weekly restaurant meals, vacations, designer bags and heels, hair and makeup forand health insurance.


And all you have to show for it is being nagged to death and p*ssy rationed

 

[Bumblebreh]

This is where all the 6 figure brehs realize they let their egos lull them in a trap with no exit.

Now you are responsible for the mortgage, all utility bills, her credit card debts, weekly restaurant meals, vacations, designer bags and heels, hair and makeup forand health insurance.


And all you have to show for it is being nagged to death and p*ssy rationed

Oh and if things do not work out she can get a divorce.And she is entitled to alimony and child support.I remember an article about women being frustrated because of the lack of marriageable men.Which means the lack of men who are earning double or triple what the average woman earns a year in america and women are pissed.
The funny thing is some brehs will risk being a baby father just to go raw.18 years worth of child support for only a few minutes worth of pleasure.Stupid motherfukkers.

 

[JackRoss]

I impact her life

She knows, I know and her and my family knows

She calls me God

@SidneyDeane

 

[RealCrownHeights]

Bumping this classic thread because I missed out on it originally. When my girl and I moved in, we said we would split rent 50/50 and we would take turns on groceries, we both cook, but I cook more. The relationship is basically 70/30 after that, because if we go out on dates etc, I pay for everything, and she'll chip in sometimes.

We sat down and looked at my finances and I said I can get you the ring by August, but I have credit card debt I'm trying to pay off as well and also save because a wedding and eventually us buying a house will be expensive and traveling and investing in our passion to leave corporate all cost money.

So we just paid rent, and she's telling me we need to start looking for summer plans and trips. I say yea we can look at it but I probably won't buy a ticket until my next check. Yesterday she blew up because she wants to go all the way to Harlem for church Sunday and then go to Ricardo's steakhouse after for brunch. Now bare in mind, the last time she was there she saw Lala Anthony and I heard about it again from Ochocinco talking about coming to Harlem to fight Camron and he will be there. My thing is, why do I have to pay $200+ for brunch and commute an hour when that can be used for our trip. In her mind, we need to do both, but I'm not rich.

 

[Mordith]

Women have been nothing but a negative influence on my finances, jobs be damned.

Fat nikkas like you gotta pay like you weigh....

 

[Meowth tote da Uzi]

All I know is when we broke up i saw 10k stack in my bank account. When we was together the most I would ever have at once was around 800 to 1k

 

[blues_funk_reggae]

the last time she was there she saw Lala Anthony and I heard about it again from Ochocinco talking about coming to Harlem to fight Camron and he will be there. My thing is, why do I have to pay $200+ for brunch and commute an hour when that can be used for our trip. In her mind, we need to do both, but I'm not rich.

Because you're playing with YOUR money, if you were playing with HER money she would turn into a forensic financial analyst, it's that simple.

 

[Givethanks]

Why do people put themselves into situations and complain, just break up


I'm lucky my girl is as Cheap as me lol

 

[Vandelay]

My money usually gets better, because of consistency. Not entertaining a bunch of shyt and people when I'm in a relationship.

 

[2 one 3]

I swear I don’t miss that shiit…

Expensive ass dinners every weekend

Expecting trips

Paying for hair & nails…


Hell nah…

 

[the bossman]

Bumping this classic thread because I missed out on it originally. When my girl and I moved in, we said we would split rent 50/50 and we would take turns on groceries, we both cook, but I cook more. The relationship is basically 70/30 after that, because if we go out on dates etc, I pay for everything, and she'll chip in sometimes.

We sat down and looked at my finances and I said I can get you the ring by August, but I have credit card debt I'm trying to pay off as well and also save because a wedding and eventually us buying a house will be expensive and traveling and investing in our passion to leave corporate all cost money.

So we just paid rent, and she's telling me we need to start looking for summer plans and trips. I say yea we can look at it but I probably won't buy a ticket until my next check. Yesterday she blew up because she wants to go all the way to Harlem for church Sunday and then go to Ricardo's steakhouse after for brunch. Now bare in mind, the last time she was there she saw Lala Anthony and I heard about it again from Ochocinco talking about coming to Harlem to fight Camron and he will be there. My thing is, why do I have to pay $200+ for brunch and commute an hour when that can be used for our trip. In her mind, we need to do both, but I'm not rich.

If she feels that strongly about it then let her pay for brunch

You already laid out the long term plan as far as marriage and house. Remind her of the long term goals y'all agreed on. She can either get with it or pay the difference if she still wants the short term leisure shyt

 

[Pegasus Jackson]

Bumping this classic thread because I missed out on it originally. When my girl and I moved in, we said we would split rent 50/50 and we would take turns on groceries, we both cook, but I cook more. The relationship is basically 70/30 after that, because if we go out on dates etc, I pay for everything, and she'll chip in sometimes.

We sat down and looked at my finances and I said I can get you the ring by August, but I have credit card debt I'm trying to pay off as well and also save because a wedding and eventually us buying a house will be expensive and traveling and investing in our passion to leave corporate all cost money.

So we just paid rent, and she's telling me we need to start looking for summer plans and trips. I say yea we can look at it but I probably won't buy a ticket until my next check. Yesterday she blew up because she wants to go all the way to Harlem for church Sunday and then go to Ricardo's steakhouse after for brunch. Now bare in mind, the last time she was there she saw Lala Anthony and I heard about it again from Ochocinco talking about coming to Harlem to fight Camron and he will be there. My thing is, why do I have to pay $200+ for brunch and commute an hour when that can be used for our trip. In her mind, we need to do both, but I'm not rich.

Simp.

 

[MajesticLion]

So we just paid rent, and she's telling me we need to start looking for summer plans and trips. I say yea we can look at it but I probably won't buy a ticket until my next check. Yesterday she blew up because she wants to go all the way to Harlem for church Sunday and then go to Ricardo's steakhouse after for brunch. Now bare in mind, the last time she was there she saw Lala Anthony and I heard about it again from Ochocinco talking about coming to Harlem to fight Camron and he will be there. My thing is, why do I have to pay $200+ for brunch and commute an hour when that can be used for our trip. In her mind, we need to do both, but I'm not rich.

fangirling over Lala and Ochocinco

 

[2 one 3]

fangirling over Lala and Ochocinco

Shorty sounds a little thirsty to be on the scene to be honest…

And if she’s that pressed to go to the brunch, she needs to break bread…