How did it feel when you first got cheated on?

[MoveForward]

you can walk away without being the bad guy.

This right here! I was over the sh1t and miserable but we had a four year old at the time and I didn't want to be labeled the black man that left his family because he is irresponsible. Then you get that stigma of being an absentee bad father...

Guess what? She calls me a bad father every chance she gets and tells her family that I don't do anything for my son when I literally spent $1200 last month on him (which I don't mind because I enjoy being able to spoil him) and I get him every weekend. Let's not forget the fact that we have a daughter in a great college and she's a great kid. Before I caught her fukking off on me, she used to regularly thank me for the sacrifices I made for our family.

They rarely just admit that they fukked you over and just apologize, they have to go out of their way to demonize you.

 

[MikelArteta]

It hurt really bad... Whereas most men get this in their teens and early 20's, i just went through it earlier this year. Although I realize that it was the best thing that ever happened to me now, initially I was a mess and I didn't know how I was going to get through it.

all you can do is MoveForward , and its true sometimes its better to get that immunity shot early on

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

And you went out and cheated didn't you?

No

 

[Robo Squirrel]

No

That's wassup.

 

[BuckFilly]

shyt hurt

 

[ApolloStark]

never been cheated (that i know of...!!) so only entering this thread to stick my chest out

but serious question, what kind of chicks do yall get serious with? i'd like to think i'm a good judge of character and the kind of bytch who would even consider cheating would quickly show those red flags (even inadvertently) pretty early on. of course there's anomalies it's not a perfect science but you should be able to ascertain a bytch's loyalty from the jump

 

[MikelArteta]

never been cheated (that i know of...!!) so only entering this thread to stick my chest out

but serious question, what kind of chicks do yall get serious with? i'd like to think i'm a good judge of character and the kind of bytch who would even consider cheating would quickly show those red flags (even inadvertently) pretty early on. of course there's anomalies it's not a perfect science but you should be able to ascertain a bytch's loyalty from the jump

People change breh, i was dating that chick for 3 years

 

[BantuKnotz99]

She confessed out of guilt...he was a ex and the pain i felt when she confessed, felt like a knife to the heart. Played me real well, actually turned me cold. All I kept replaying in my mind is this batch fukking this niqqa and then coming home to me like shyt ain't happen.

Batch was calling him after getting off the phone with me. Telling the niqqa my business and smoking and drinking with the niqqa. Its been 9 years and I still feel anger, we have kids together and I treat her like utter shyt daily. I do it to see her break mentally and physically. I'm not attracted to her at all anymore.

When those random flashbacks of a niqqa fukking your batch pops up it can fukk up your day. She's apologized countless times throughout the years.. but I still want to see her suffer. Waiting on my time....

 

[Robo Squirrel]

...

 

[Robo Squirrel]

all women cheat

 

[SupaDupaFresh]

I was maybe 19 or 20 years old and it really fukked wit my young head at the time. But I kind of deserved it. I was immature and a complete jackass to this girl.

 

[Robo Squirrel]

 

[Robo Squirrel]

*Bump

 

[DJ Paul's Arm]

I was like, I made it. Finally, this bytch can leave

That’s my go to.

After smashin a few times, I’ll purposely be boring and complacent until she cheats. Then it’s smooth sailing from there. Zero drama. Bye bytch.

 

[Music Fiend]

Like another nikka was better than me

And at the time, I was naive and had a big enough ego to think she'd never do that.

Fukked me for a good 3 years before I could even trust friends nvm a partner.