How did y'all find out your boo cheated

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idk how to explain it other than I just felt like something wasn't right. I rigged his phone/computer with the spy shyt and got every password he typed and a full manuscript of chat logs and other shyt.

I gave it a good 6 months and just sat back and watched :beli:

this is pretty unethical. thoughts of doing the same have flitted through my mind but it disgusted me so much that i was willing to go to those lengths just to get the truth. while i'm not past being sneaky, deceptive and nosy, i'd still say that using a keylogger is crossing the line. it's a complete violation of privacy and completely unethical.
 

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this one female i barely started being my gf

told me where her spare key was cuz i had too drop off a package for her whenever it came and i guess she forgot
and i went buy in her house and saw her legs up in the air getting her back blown out on the couch

so i just walked by both of them dropped box off on table and they saw me and she tried too explain and i didnt let her and said no go head continue dont worry bout me being here
i'll let myself out the door and here is the spare key

:to: talk bout seeing fukked up shyt
That was actually dope as fukk


Just walked in, walked right by them, dropped her shyt off, and walked out. :salute:
 

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this one female i barely started being my gf

told me where her spare key was cuz i had too drop off a package for her whenever it came and i guess she forgot
and i went buy in her house and saw her legs up in the air getting her back blown out on the couch

so i just walked by both of them dropped box off on table and they saw me and she tried too explain and i didnt let her and said no go head continue dont worry bout me being here
i'll let myself out the door and here is the spare key

:to: talk bout seeing fukked up shyt

Damn my nikka..you had it rough:sadcam:
 

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My first ex... I got curious when she switched her attitude up and went through her shyt



Seek and you shall find I guess. Now, whenever a chick starts switching up on me, not responding to texts, acting shady I immediately toss her ass in the bushes :camby:
Yup. Like dude in the thread said earlier, it's no one to blame but ourselves. We see the signs but we ignore them and think "That's that shyt that happen to other nikkas :skip:"
 

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My first ex... I got curious when she switched her attitude up and went through her shyt



Seek and you shall find I guess. Now, whenever a chick starts switching up on me, not responding to texts, acting shady I immediately toss her ass in the bushes :camby:

dump there before they dump you
 

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this is pretty unethical. thoughts of doing the same have flitted through my mind but it disgusted me so much that i was willing to go to those lengths just to get the truth. while i'm not past being sneaky, deceptive and nosy, i'd still say that using a keylogger is crossing the line. it's a complete violation of privacy and completely unethical.
I didn't say what I did was right.
Had I not gone that far then I never would have found out that the was playing me :yeshrug: It was extreme but it gave me the info I needed.
 

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Breh you actually handled that pretty well.... much better than I would have.

You walked in, saw what you saw, and was like :yeshrug:

I wish I could have a :yeshrug:attitude to everything.

I think that messes the other person up more mentally; cause they don't know what you're thinking, and you're all :yeshrug: to everything they say.

And they don't think that's possible because they know if the roles were reversed, they'd be all :sadcam::dwillhuh::why::pacspit::sadbron::to::damn::demonic:.



But for you to stand there with nothing but a :yeshrug:, that really messed her up cause she didn't understand; and it probably bothered her for a long time.


That was actually dope as fukk


Just walked in, walked right by them, dropped her shyt off, and walked out. :salute:

Damn my nikka..you had it rough:sadcam:


i mean i learned thru it all u can stop nobody from cheating u just let it be why get all :mad: and have a cursing i just be like well :ufdup: and just walk away only other time i got mad real mad was with ex cuz it involved my 2 kids and thats where the :yeshrug: aint gonna cut it and all bets are off when it comes too my kids

but i learned thru the game from women that u just gotta be the better person and accept it for what it is. either she down for u or she aint shyt in a nutshell

but believe it does hurt :to: u just gotta not show it too them when it happens and then go home and let it all out
 

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she got pregnant, I was a teenager and stupid as fukk dealing with this person. I also found evidence before, letters and shyt, plus his family was snitching on him. Be dumb and "in love" and think you're supposed to stay with your first, brehettes.

When I ended things with him a while after, he cried. Idk why

Then I had one who was too friendly, never had proof of cheating but I would go through phones, if I didn't like what I saw, I'd swing-happened once. I was drunk. And he was lucky it'd was only a phone I threw in his chest instead of the bottle. Those days are behind me though.
 

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You can just hear that pain in his voice like he experienced it yesterday. :sadcam:
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I always use to have a feeling my babymom was cheating (because I was). I didn't actually find out until she told me after She caught me.

I feel you always know you just deny it ... Most times if you think something is going on it is
A match made in heaven sucks you had a child though. :scust:
 

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When I was staying in jersey my next door neighbor, young black man... used to sling to all the mexicans around my way, I had a mall job and would see this nikka walking thru the mall with different bytches... just doing his thing, dude had two kids by a rican chick and missed her like crazy...we would get fukked up and he would tell me how he fukked up...his babymom got 5 sisters and 3 of em got the nicest faces and bodies you will ever see on a woman, one (the youngest) was giving him play, she worked at a walgreens type joint and he would give her rides to work in his bm's car... before she got out the car once she gave him a kiss...little did they know another sister was nearby in her car watching that shyt... :ohhh:

Nosey ass sister runs home and tell her mom what she saw...they call my nikka's babymom...she packed up and left with the kids within a few hours, by the time he came home from work, he found a letter, she turned his phone off (in her name) dude knocked at my door to call her..she didn't answer, called her parents ...got called a bytch ass nikka who will never see his kids again. Dude broke down right there on my stoop, I went and got some cognac and told him stop tripping, you fukked up but you ain't murder nobody...time heals all wounds (shyt like that)...that entire winter we killed the block, caught almost every fiend that came around the way, when it started to get warm, my nikka had a car and a few bytches, but every night he was sad, on my stoop talking about how he missed his kids and babymom, every once in a while they would come by and visit and you would see dudes mood change this nikka would glow when they came by...after a while she agreed to come home, but under one condition, he couldn't serve ready rock with me anymore :manny:

dude got his family and his job back :blessed:, shorty even cut his phone back on..they got on the schedule of having date nights and taking the kids to the park, he would get fukked up with me on the weekends, money was slow at the job, every friday he would bring a fiend from work around the way and I would let him serve him, one friday morning this nikka came to my house distraught... with no fiend, I ask him "what's going on" he asked "do you got some bud.. Its some wild shyt happening right now" I roll up and sat on the stoop with him, dude says "I went thru her phone and found that she been texting this nikka"
"I was about to call his ass and ask what the fukk was going on and tell dude don't call my girl no more but she would know I called from her phone"
"I was gonna call from my phone but she might hear me..."
so being a smart dumb nikka he jots the number down and walks to a pay phone on the side of the corner store and calls dude

Rican nikka: yo who dis?
My nikka: yo why you calling my girl?
RN: nikka gtfoh with that bullshyt, who is your girl?
MN: dude you texted her last night at 10...are you fukking my girl?
RN: lol nikka I'm fukking alot of nikka's girl ...which one is yours nikka
(Room full of people burst out in laughter in the background)
MN: *hangs up* :sadcam:
 
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