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Got something you want to confess
How did y'all find out your boo cheated
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Elle Driver
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Sane
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I dunno.
Is she the one who turned you bi?
nah, i've always been this way. i turned my first nikka out when i was in the 4th grade. i didn't come to terms with it until i was about 17-18, tho.
I dunno.
spill it, driver.
RealAssanova
Vagitarian
Never been in a relationship and i'm 24.
Readin all dis shyt got me worried now
what if i haven't got all the sucker out of me?
what if my lack of relationship experience comes back to bite me in da azz later on when i do decide to get serious?
Readin all dis shyt got me worried now
what if i haven't got all the sucker out of me?
what if my lack of relationship experience comes back to bite me in da azz later on when i do decide to get serious?
Elle Driver
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The wounds still fresh y'all.
then let the healing begin here. i'm a coli user in a suit. let us help solve your problem.
i'm not gonna rest until
People who cheat should receive a proper beating. A PROPER one, one they will not forget. Humans will always remember extreme physical and emotional pain.
But since people are soft nowadays...
Most other situations where people cause extreme emotional distress on another person its deemed illegal so why isn't cheating? There should be serious ramifications for a cheater if the person that has been cheated on can prove it, in a court of law!
And people stop fukking around with another man's girl. Why do you get a rise out of that? Multiple times I've read on this forum that people have knowingly mess around with a girl that's taken and pat their stupid selves on the back. shyt is stupid and dangerous.
But since people are soft nowadays...
Most other situations where people cause extreme emotional distress on another person its deemed illegal so why isn't cheating? There should be serious ramifications for a cheater if the person that has been cheated on can prove it, in a court of law!
And people stop fukking around with another man's girl. Why do you get a rise out of that? Multiple times I've read on this forum that people have knowingly mess around with a girl that's taken and pat their stupid selves on the back. shyt is stupid and dangerous.
Elle Driver
Veteran
then let the healing begin here. i'm a coli user in a suit. let us help solve your problem.
i'm not gonna rest until
Me and my ex was living together at the time because her people she was staying with kicked her out
We were together for like a year and some change before that
After about another year and a half of staying together I noticed her getting distant
Went through her phone (she didn't know I peeped the password prior) and seen texts saying "I enjoyed eating your p*ssy, you should sit on my face more often"
My damn heart dropped into my stomach after seeing that
I never thought I'd be a dude that starts thrashing around emotionally an shyt (which I wasn't at first)
Before I confessed about going through her phone and finding those texts, I asked her "is there something u wanna tell me?" "Have u ever cheated on me"
She denied, denied, denied, of course
She was supposedly "religious" at the time talking about "I swear to God I never cheated" (Smh)
I proceeded to show her the texts, and calmly told her to get the fukk out
She started crying, "I'm sorry" "Where am I suppose to go" type shyt
She wouldn't leave, kept apologizing, and patch shyt up, which was the LAST thing I wanted to hear and do
She wouldn't leave, and I just exploded
I'd NEVER hit a woman..... But them walls and doors got the works tho (there goes my deposit)
She eventually left after that
I didn't really give a damn about her cheating on me too much, but what got me extra heated is that I felt that my kindness, generosity, and everything I did for her was spat upon
Fast forward, I'm engaged to an amazing woman now and my ex life literally went to shyt after me, very sad shyt
She started getting her ass beat and became suicidal
She lost it when she found out I'm engaged
We were together for like a year and some change before that
After about another year and a half of staying together I noticed her getting distant
Went through her phone (she didn't know I peeped the password prior) and seen texts saying "I enjoyed eating your p*ssy, you should sit on my face more often"
My damn heart dropped into my stomach after seeing that
I never thought I'd be a dude that starts thrashing around emotionally an shyt (which I wasn't at first)
Before I confessed about going through her phone and finding those texts, I asked her "is there something u wanna tell me?" "Have u ever cheated on me"
She denied, denied, denied, of course
She was supposedly "religious" at the time talking about "I swear to God I never cheated" (Smh)
I proceeded to show her the texts, and calmly told her to get the fukk out
She started crying, "I'm sorry" "Where am I suppose to go" type shyt
She wouldn't leave, kept apologizing, and patch shyt up, which was the LAST thing I wanted to hear and do
She wouldn't leave, and I just exploded
I'd NEVER hit a woman..... But them walls and doors got the works tho (there goes my deposit)
She eventually left after that
I didn't really give a damn about her cheating on me too much, but what got me extra heated is that I felt that my kindness, generosity, and everything I did for her was spat upon
Fast forward, I'm engaged to an amazing woman now and my ex life literally went to shyt after me, very sad shyt
She started getting her ass beat and became suicidal
She lost it when she found out I'm engaged
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Sane
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You posted that before
Who me?
Never been in a relationship and i'm 24.
Readin all dis shyt got me worried now
what if i haven't got all the sucker out of me?
what if my lack of relationship experience comes back to bite me in da azz later on when i do decide to get serious?
breh it did for me. my first real relationship came when i was 24.. before i had smashed a couple broads .. but most women don't think of me as the type that they would want to spend some quality time with. Like once you get to know me, i'm a cool guy, but that quality doesn't come out the first few times, it takes me a while to get into my comfort zone to really kick it with someone. So the last 2 years i learned how to be in a relationship on the fly. there were times i hated it, and there were times i enjoyed it. And i learned a lot, but i found that "i wasn't good enough"
but now that it's over, i don't know how to cope with it. i've gotten my heartbroke before but circumstances were different .. this one hurts