How did y'all find out your boo cheated

[The 2020 New Member]

air it out, vegan princess.

 

[Sane]

 

[RealAssanova]

breh it did for me. my first real relationship came when i was 24.. before i had smashed a couple broads .. but most women don't think of me as the type that they would want to spend some quality time with. Like once you get to know me, i'm a cool guy, but that quality doesn't come out the first few times, it takes me a while to get into my comfort zone to really kick it with someone. So the last 2 years i learned how to be in a relationship on the fly. there were times i hated it, and there were times i enjoyed it. And i learned a lot, but i found that "i wasn't good enough"

but now that it's over, i don't know how to cope with it. i've gotten my heartbroke before but circumstances were different .. this one hurts

Z chill wit it breh...you startin to make me worry breh

 

[Remote]

Me and my ex was living together at the time because her people she was staying with kicked her out

We were together for like a year and some change before that

After about another year and a half of staying together I noticed her getting distant

Went through her phone (she didn't know I peeped the password prior) and seen texts saying "I enjoyed eating your p*ssy, you should sit on my face more often"

My damn heart dropped into my stomach after seeing that

I never thought I'd be a dude that starts thrashing around emotionally an shyt (which I wasn't at first)

Before I confessed about going through her phone and finding those texts, I asked her "is there something u wanna tell me?" "Have u ever cheated on me"

She denied, denied, denied, of course

She was supposedly "religious" at the time talking about "I swear to God I never cheated" (Smh)

I proceeded to show her the texts, and calmly told her to get the fukk out

She started crying, "I'm sorry" "Where am I suppose to go" type shyt

She wouldn't leave, kept apologizing, and patch shyt up, which was the LAST thing I wanted to hear and do

She wouldn't leave, and I just exploded

I'd NEVER hit a woman..... But them walls and doors got the works tho (there goes my deposit)

She eventually left after that

I didn't really give a damn about her cheating on me too much, but what got me extra heated is that I felt that my kindness, generosity, and everything I did for her was spat upon

Fast forward, I'm engaged to an amazing woman now and my ex life literally went to shyt after me, very sad shyt

She started getting her ass beat and became suicidal

She lost it when she found out I'm engaged

Damn dude.

 

[BamdaDon]

People who cheat should receive a proper beating. A PROPER one, one they will not forget. Humans will always remember extreme physical and emotional pain.

But since people are soft nowadays...

Most other situations where people cause extreme emotional distress on another person its deemed illegal so why isn't cheating? There should be serious ramifications for a cheater if the person that has been cheated on can prove it, in a court of law!

And people stop fukking around with another man's girl. Why do you get a rise out of that? Multiple times I've read on this forum that people have knowingly mess around with a girl that's taken and pat their stupid selves on the back. shyt is stupid and dangerous.

sensitive ass nikka. If people aren't attracted to one person when they are single , why the hell would they be when they are in a relationship.

 

[Strike-Wun]

Damn dude.

I wouldn't recommend being cheated on to anyone, that shyt was horrible

BUT, it opens your eyes to a whole new world, I'm kind of glad I went through that

shyts not sunshine and rainbow no more lol

 

[itsyoung!!]

at anyone believing or even entertaining any of @Negro the Magnificent posts

 

[Trillion]

I dont know if I want to type it...its traumatic. I started fooling with this girl start of senior year. I was a senior; she a junior. It was a blur. Kanye and Amber Rose type shyt. That bytch had me gone Anyways, 9/10 months later. Its the summer. I graduated. She going back for her senior year. Everything was cool.....then August rolled around. Shorty went AWOL. For a week, bytch didn't return my calls. Couldn't chill. Cut a nikka off cold turkey. At the time, Im wondering fukk did I do? Looking back at that as a grown man, that's probably the biggest red flag there is. Hoe was acting like I was stranger after we had been together for a year.





Six days later, she dropped by the crib. Apologized. Made up some bullshyt story about needing time to clear her head or whatever. She was going through alot of things. What did I do? I comforted her, told her not to shut me out like that, I love you yada yada Two weeks go by, bytch goes AWOL again At that point, even my young dumb ass knew I shared that girl. Blockbuster p*ssy. I called her leaving some super simp ass message, pouring my heart out Boys to Men End of the Road style. She never called back. I decided to go to her mom's job. Called her from there She answered She hung up. So I drove to her crib. I knew she was there, knew she wasn't going to work anytime soon and knew her parents weren't coming home for hours. Pathetic? Yea, I know. At that point, I knew she was fukkin another nikka and he was probably at her crib while I was outside. I just wanted the bytch to own up to it. You know how in movies in cities like NYC, there's some loser yelling up to the apartment window from down on the street? Well, that was me All the dope boys was looking at me like "You're embarrassing yourself lil nikka". I got the hint and realized I was out there lookin a chump





No explanation. No nothing. A year together and the ho didn't even have the heart to break up with me. The ether was strong. The next girl I dated....she left some dude to be with me. They weren't technically together but, were still together....you know how it go. He didn't want a relationship with her anymore but, after I came in the picture, he got territorial. After it was clear she was with me, he went on a tirade about "that's why my nikka *R* fukked yo' bytch anyway nikka, had you outside crying like a sucka". I aint let him see me sweat but, inside I was....

u still with the next girl how did that end?

 

[newarkhiphop]

i was 13 brehs, walking over to her house after school am like a block away and i see two people on her front porch i get closer and see these two ppl got there faces locked and i still hadn't accepted the worse i get about 50 ft away and she tongue wrestling with another dude i couldn't believe it i froze there for a full two minutes and they was still going at it i aint even gonna front that shyt fukked me up for a few years i was the poster boy for #HOH

 

[Dooby]

sensitive ass nikka. If people aren't attracted to one person when they are single , why the hell would they be when they are in a relationship.

I don't understand what you mean by this statement.

 

[-DMP-]

Man wtf I read this thread for....during cuffing season no less

God damn it!

-DMP-

 

[Trillion]

imma keep it short

- met a girl at a club
- blonde bytch fine, into rap and stuff like that
- got close (but was acting sneaky she specifically told me not to tell a specific dude that she gave me her number )
- i overlooked that me and her got close
- we broke up because she was texting another guy
- we got back together
- she really went out her way to make me happy i aint gonna lie dope ass girl
- found out she had cancer
- stuck with her through her issues
- went to the hospital with her
- was there for her
- bytch recovered
- i kept having these dreams about her getting fukked by some other guy
- woke up went digging for no reason
- the minute i went on myspace i look for dudes leaving comments, nothing serious nothing serious
- found one guy who put up a fresh picture of her recovered from cancer that she made for him being sexy he uploaded it and put " my baby" in the caption
- went upside to the bytch ethered the bytch
- she started crying to me begging me back blah blah, then i said i knew everything ( she lied about something else ) and she turned demonic
dissed me n shyt and started laughing at me

fast forward to the future
1. her next boyfriend after me ethered her publicly on twitter for being a fake bytch
2. the 32 year old guy she cheated on me with posted her nudes online he ended up hating her
3. a guy who he hates claimed she stripped for him on webcam and he posted her nudes online he also ended up hating her
4. she has a shytty job
5. she looks flabby n sick no joke she still skinny but ugh
6. she deleted all her social media out of shame

karma breh

 

[BuyandSave]

She was shady from the start but I was too naive and inexperienced to see the signs. Just regular shyt like having a bunch of male "best friends" who were "like brothers" to her. Telling me that she was okay with me hanging out with girls in a group because she had trust in me (basically insuring herself in case I got suspicious about her hanging out with dudes). Putting a pass on her phone. Honestly, just the fact that her phone was going off with texts/calls constantly, no matter where we were or what we were doing. Going to "dinner with her family who came down from Florida" a little too often. Always a part of some supposed family issues/drama that required her to be gone for the night. Making her facebook completely private when she knew I didn't have one at the time so I couldn't look at what she was up to. Basically, I fell in love due to being a dumb little youngbul, got my heart broken, and received the biggest reality check I've ever had up until that point. That year changed my life. Afterwards is when I officially began to think like an adult and left all of that "you are my sun and my stars and I trust you fully" little kid fantasy bullshyt in the past.

 

[Malik]

u still with the next girl how did that end?

No. We were together for 2 years but, we broke up when I went back to college. I'm from the east coast and the school was all the way in Tennessee. It was sorta ironic seeing as I ended up transferring to a school two hours from home the next year but, it was over by then. She was a good girl too

 

[Trillion]

She was shady from the start but I was too naive and inexperienced to see the signs. Just regular shyt like having a bunch of male "best friends" who were "like brothers" to her. Telling me that she was okay with me hanging out with girls in a group because she had trust in me (basically insuring herself in case I got suspicious about her hanging out with dudes). Putting a pass on her phone. Honestly, just the fact that her phone was going off with texts/calls constantly, no matter where we were or what we were doing. Going to "dinner with her family who came down from Florida" a little too often. Always a part of some supposed family issues/drama that required her to be gone for the night. Making her facebook completely private when she knew I didn't have one at the time so I couldn't look at what she was up to. Basically, I fell in love due to being a dumb little youngbul, got my heart broken, and received the biggest reality check I've ever had up until that point. That year changed my life. Afterwards is when I officially began to think like an adult and left all of that "you are my sun and my stars and I trust you fully" little kid fantasy bullshyt in the past.

there are always signs