How did y'all respond after your first heartbreak?

Ashley Banks

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I just got a new bf :manny:

I kinda expect relationships to end so it's not really shocking when they do and I always expect the worst from men so when it doesn't end as badly as I thought it would, I'm relieved.
 

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Ain't the question how i responded. Question is how i bounced back and smartened up Nas. :birdman:
 

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We broke up in August of last year but I always thought we would get back together In a month or two . Now we ain't talking and she blocked me on Instagram even thought I wasn't even following her .

we were living together while we were In a relationship (which I never done with a girl before ) so it's hard to go from being with someone 24/7 to not talking/seeing them at all . It was very tough at all but now I'm doing way better . Hitting the gym religiously , focus on school and talking to new women. Don't know if I would be strong enough to say no if she ever contacts me asking for us to get back together though
 

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Denied every feeling I had n our history, tried to play it nonchalant n went towards my fave defense mechanism, humor.
 

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-Became a cold blooded, heart guarding breh for a while.
-Worked on myself
-met new women to get over her...

but I haven't fully gotten over her :mjcry:. I don't want to be with her but I know I still have lingering effects from that relationship because I know I shouldn't be so heartless sometimes.


Maybe I need to be in this cruel world :mjcry:
 

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:lolbron:Holla ' ed at all the girls on campus we were both going to college so it was inevitable
 

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Temporary sadness. Followed by a lot of teenage fukkery thatcured that sad feelin and led to a 2 year relationship with someone better.
 

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I just got a new bf :manny:

I kinda expect relationships to end so it's not really shocking when they do and I always expect the worst from men so when it doesn't end as badly as I thought it would, I'm relieved.

You not telling us the truth :wtb:

That or you just never been in love :jbhmm:

Something had to happen to make you expect the worst.
 
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