How did you brehs get over breakups?

Jasonmask

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You don't really get over it. Enough time just passes that the memories fade and your life goes in a different direction. I know it's rough, but you'll be aight, breh.
/thread honest truth. I’ve done everything to getting wasted, staying in, not fukking a girl and fukking another girl the same day as the break up. Doesn’t do shyt
 

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It's like this:

It's always going to hurt a little. But the sting from it never lasts long if you treat it in time!

You will feel different in your mind when you no longer pained by it.

Take all the good out of it while it lasted and keep your options open (even if you're not up to it) because a good person will appreciate you still taking care of yourself despite the heart breaks.

We all have a stress period where it gets really personal. This is a good time to develop a replacement hobby you can personally channel your energies motions into.

For example some of the brothers here had said exercising and working out! Very nice choice.

Which is a much healthier alternative to hitting the bar or eating away at your feelings.

Also hit up some good friends if you got them, having even one person to call and be upfront with is better than wallowing alone.

Trust me, lots of us dudes tend to fight the feelings keeping our heart break to ourselves. It really only just eats away at our truest self's. Chipping some hardass too tough for his own shoes instead of manning up to the fact it's okay to adjust to life's outcomes instead.

Sometimes you have to take in the reasons of why the last go around didn't work out before you jump into bed with the next chick.

So have some time to self reflect, grab a hobby, pick up a friend, and also be open minded to new people and experiences when you gain enough confidence to get back out there in the world.

It's ill you see to be this real about the whole subject because I think too many people suppress their own hearts and then just hop into relationships without repacking what baggage they bring.

You see you got to think "If I'm wearing the pants, I'm securing the bag!" Because why make yourself vulnerable to someone else's problems [which will happen one way or another because is no one is perfect] without securing your own needs as a person?

This post is NOT for the general public but dedicated to the real nikkas who had lost a lady they loved over to the lamest things but still bounced back to ball out and bag a new chick that they can really trophy their times with.

It all does take time, but you'll see it will be in choices and feelings you'll reason yourself a way to power up in confidence again.

Just don't get caught up in the blues over it. Because some dudes lose their mind over these chicks when they get too attached. It's wild fam.
 

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