How did you meet your S/O and where was your first date?
- Thread starter Neuromancer
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Met on Hinge in December 2021. Talked for a few months off and on. She was finishing up her last semester of school and job hunting so I kind of fell back.
Got the “I think you’re a great guy but I’m focused on other things right now” text.
April 2022 we went to a lil rooftop bar after things settled down for her. Been together a year & change now
She made me wait 3 months for the kitty and I didn’t even trip, well worth the wait
Got the “I think you’re a great guy but I’m focused on other things right now” text.
April 2022 we went to a lil rooftop bar after things settled down for her. Been together a year & change now
She made me wait 3 months for the kitty and I didn’t even trip, well worth the wait
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App and sports bar. The sports bar was her idea.
Solomon Lurke
My Boys Dey Be Lurkin...
Hanging out with mutual friends
Netflix and chill at my crib
Netflix and chill at my crib
Belize King
I got concepts of a plan.
I was trawling on POF. I had a somewhat angry profile calling women out. Wifey had a girls night where they created her a profile. I hit her up and she responded before she was to shut the profile down.
I worked nights and she had a 9 to 5. We ended up at a breakfast spot near her job at 7 am. Took us 4 tries to finally meet up. Convo was great and I was attracted to her mind and body.
6 years of marriage and two Daughters later we are going strong! Fellas you never know where you will find your Wife. Keep shootin.
I worked nights and she had a 9 to 5. We ended up at a breakfast spot near her job at 7 am. Took us 4 tries to finally meet up. Convo was great and I was attracted to her mind and body.
6 years of marriage and two Daughters later we are going strong! Fellas you never know where you will find your Wife. Keep shootin.
Met my lady on a dating website/app. We decided to meet @ a chain restaurant called Islands. They are a Hawaiian themed restaurant that serves burgers, tacos, fries and is known for their Tortilla soup which is 
!!!! It is on the same level as a Red Robin.
She surprised me by buying the meal. Yes, I attempted to pay, but she insisted on paying. I didn't come empty handed. Bought her some yellow roses and a house warming gift.
Been almost 2 years strong! No drama, no arguments, no bougieness, no selfishness, no unrealistic expectations, no narcissism, basically....no BS!
!!!! It is on the same level as a Red Robin. She surprised me by buying the meal. Yes, I attempted to pay, but she insisted on paying. I didn't come empty handed. Bought her some yellow roses and a house warming gift.
Been almost 2 years strong! No drama, no arguments, no bougieness, no selfishness, no unrealistic expectations, no narcissism, basically....no BS!
Seen her a couple times in passing...
my co-worker was trying to get at her....so I didn't shoot off rip cause he was soft when it comes to hoes....prior almost had "beef" and started acting funny over some p*ssy.....decided I'll let him try 2 bag fukk it...
I knew her friend and we were cool....we both ended up in wifeys friends apartment and wifey was there.....small kickback type shyt....
my boy tried to shoot and wifey wasn't feeling it at all.....she was mocking him and laughing n his face....(she was a little turnt lol)
the apartment cleared out for a second and it was just me n wifey and she was eyeing all night....
she came and sat next to me on the catch and we were smoking and started kissing....
course like 2 minutes later everyone came back in..... wifey was all giggly n shyt not playing it cool.....
co-worker furious with me..if looks could kill..
tried to fukk up my money after....started hating openly like never before.....had to cut him off.
first dates were just kicking it in her whip or chilling at the park
married n still n love this day
my co-worker was trying to get at her....so I didn't shoot off rip cause he was soft when it comes to hoes....prior almost had "beef" and started acting funny over some p*ssy.....decided I'll let him try 2 bag fukk it...
I knew her friend and we were cool....we both ended up in wifeys friends apartment and wifey was there.....small kickback type shyt....
my boy tried to shoot and wifey wasn't feeling it at all.....she was mocking him and laughing n his face....(she was a little turnt lol)
the apartment cleared out for a second and it was just me n wifey and she was eyeing all night....
she came and sat next to me on the catch and we were smoking and started kissing....
course like 2 minutes later everyone came back in..... wifey was all giggly n shyt not playing it cool.....
co-worker furious with me..if looks could kill..
tried to fukk up my money after....started hating openly like never before.....had to cut him off.
first dates were just kicking it in her whip or chilling at the park
married n still n love this day
GreenGhxst
Veteran
Dating app
Walk around the lake
Walk around the lake
Givethanks
Superstar
Met: High school
Started dating : after High school
First date: tried my house lol
Actually first date: pool hall
How long: 7 years going Strong
Started dating : after High school
First date: tried my house lol
Actually first date: pool hall
How long: 7 years going Strong
Eternally Jaded
Superstar
Work tbh. She had super hips n a very enticing jiggle when she walked.
First official date was just a movie(Skull island) but we'd hung out with mutual friends at parties/lounges n ish well before that.
First official date was just a movie(Skull island) but we'd hung out with mutual friends at parties/lounges n ish well before that.
Was part of a car club that had a forum. She is the sister to a homie I knew for 3 years before meeting her. She showed up to the meet after we chatted a little online, saw a ton of potential with her and the situation she was in. Built an empire 18 years later with 2 kids and a couple houses
To answer the bolded, it was a chill time. Really casual. I pulled up in an AJ Styles t-shirt and a Blue Jays fitted, if that tells you anything.
I was getting over a break up and had been stuck in the house for months and my coworker bugged the shyt out of me to go out one night because I was probably looking like the world was ending. Long story short, she was at a random bar we stopped at, with her friend who dragged her out for the same reason.
Back that ass up came on. Her friend was staring at me like a Waffle House breakfast after a long night out and pointed me out to her. My now wife grabbed my arm and started dancing on me and the rest is history.
EDIT:
Our first date was to a mom and pop Italian restaurant. Nothing fancy. But I was plotting all night on touching that booty and sucking on those tig ol bitties. Of course, she made me wait a couple more interactions.
Back that ass up came on. Her friend was staring at me like a Waffle House breakfast after a long night out and pointed me out to her. My now wife grabbed my arm and started dancing on me and the rest is history.
EDIT:
Our first date was to a mom and pop Italian restaurant. Nothing fancy. But I was plotting all night on touching that booty and sucking on those tig ol bitties. Of course, she made me wait a couple more interactions.
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