I was dating her best friend who’s mom lived across the street from my grandmas house, my girl ended up moving away with her father after her parents got divorced, we broke up..she made her friend (my now wife) promise to never hook up with me and she made me promise to never hook up with my now wife, which we both agreed to because I honestly wasn’t thinking about her like that to begin with at that time(my now wife). A week after my girl left, I go over to my grandmas house and my (now wife) is in the living room talking to my grandma, I asked her what she doing over here and she said we needed to talk, we walk down to the basement and she just starts kissing me, I kissed back and we had sex in my grandmas basement bathroom..after that we didn’t talk for a couple months cause I was still in contact with my girl and so was my wife…me and my girl slowly drifted apart from the distance and that’s all she wrote, we made it official and both broke off contact with my ex.. been 7 years together total, almost 2 married.