How Do I Better My Social Skills

[DrexlersFade]

Here's what you do find a really hot escort, and just pay her to talk for a couple of hours. I rapidly improved my social skills using this method.

I like this approach it's really just about you getting over your own fears!

rep and dap

 

[the cac mamba]

get on xanax

 

[Fatboi1]

You pretty much gotta bullshyt your way around people and small talk. I don't like it as I'm more of a serious talker so I'll be pretty quiet around people sometimes unless I got something to talk about and when I do talk, I'm very outspoken. Like at my old job people would(new hires) say that "Oh is Fatboi1 so quiet?" and then someone else will go "Nah he's just quiet now because he don't know you like that.."


Once I got to know people, I would be the most funniest and outgoing person in the room. I'm just not a real talker when it comes to strangers and shyt. I'm actually comfortable in crowds of people. I used to be nervous around groups of people I don't know or to be facing a crowd but then I started thinking "They're probably nervous thinking someone's looking at them.." and then I realized we all self conscious I'm just the first to admit it.

Only issue I have is just making small talk with certain people. Sometimes I feel like I have to force a conversation.

 

[International Playa]

Here's what you do find a really hot escort, and just pay her to talk for a couple of hours. I rapidly improved my social skills using this method.

Thats a shortcut and quick fix with no real long lasting results. Practice should be done with someone who isnt obliged to talk to you, if someone wants to improve

 

[tater]

yo people told me i keep it too REAL sometimes

Honestly it seems like most people that say this are a$$holes. No offense , but not everybody deals well with people being blunt, and really it's all in the delivery and words you choose. Keeping it "real" is sometimes keeping it rude. I also find these people are rather forthcoming with their opinions that were maybe not asked for. Not saying don't be yourself, just that there's a time and a place to say certain things, and not everybody appreciates blunt things. You have to tailor your conversations to the people you're talking to.

 

[DrX]

u gotta be yourself and stop caring what ppl think...ppl are liars anyway...they do dirty shyt behind close doors and play a role on the surface....so just do u, whats the worst that can happen? they call u "crazy", thats every liar favorite word for honest people

 

[Neuromancer]

Read this book it did two things for me. Made me realize introversion can be an advantage in some situations and learn how to communicate at my own pace.

 

[Drake is God]

Thats a shortcut and quick fix with no real long lasting results. Practice should be done with someone who isnt obliged to talk to you, if someone wants to improve

No ones obliged to talk to you

 

[Mr Rager]

master small talk & you will eat. Conversation is the secret to getting women

read this book

Came to recommend this.

 

[Mr Rager]

Read this book it did two things for me. Made me realize introversion can be an advantage in some situations and learn how to communicate at my own pace.

I need to check this one out

 

[Scott Larock]

you might not have shyt to say because you spend all your time doing worthless stuff. if this is true, read more novels, learn a skill, and get some life experience somewhere

this is real talk right here. you gotta do shut to actually have shyt to talk about.

 

[Music Fiend]

stop being afraid of coming across as corny/awkward. Embrace that shyt. If the people you're trying to talk to don't appreciate YOU, then fukk em.

This. Be yourself is cliche but it's true. I can be weird af. And used to be shy. Everybody sees me as the most confident nikka in the room these days. I just embraced my retarded humor.

also be more animated when you talk. A lot of ppl who hate talking are stiff. I'm always acting out some shyt.

Also refrain from critical comments. Just keep I all positive. It's cool to crack jokes but for every joke You crack you should be cracking at least 4 self depreciating jokes.

 

[trix1234]

Read this book it did two things for me. Made me realize introversion can be an advantage in some situations and learn how to communicate at my own pace.

for some reason nothing appears......whats the name of the book

 

[Neuromancer]

for some reason nothing appears......whats the name of the book

Quiet by Susan Cain.

 

[Tikal]

Try to find some common ground. Maybw you like the same book, movies, sports hobbies, p*ssy or whatever. Or if you don't you can always say that you know someone who has the same interests and use their stories.

Alcohol helps. Specially if everyone socializing at the moment is drinking.