How do I explain to my cousin that there's no such thing as "Mr. Right"

[ORDER_66]

Cant save everyone...

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

If her mind is made up you're wasting your time. Let her make her own mistakes and figure it out herself.

 

[ScottyG]

She’s a woman.
She’s inherently going to believe that there’s someone better out there. Forever.

Don’t give that woman any advice.
She’ll get into a relationship. Then dump them. Get into another one. Dump them.

Eventually get married. Get bored. Dump them. Because there’s someone better.

Then she’ll fukk around.
Then find some simp.
Stick with him for a number of years.

Then the simp will get a heart attack.
And she’ll decide she doesn’t need anyone but Jesus and then she will die alone 8 years after that.

As for you, maybe the 49ers win a Super Bowl between now and then. So at least you’ll find some level of the kind of happiness in life that your cousin won’t ever taste.

Snake???

Snaaaaaaaakkkkkkkeeee!!!!

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

there is difference between "mr right" and someone who have to be legally committed to forever

 

[Grand Cru Boo]

Mr. Right exist, but she’ll get bored and look for Mr. Red flag soon enough.

Respectfully

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

There is a Mr Right for her though

 

[KBtheKey]

There are multiple Mr/Mrs rights, but they might be dating the wrong person for them or not looking for a partner at all during the time you're single.

Best anyone can do is continue your search without forcing yourself to settle, while also understanding that you can't change the majority of people you come across into who you want them to be

 

[UpAndComing]

Your cousin sounds like Joe Mazzulla stuck in a fantasy that caring about jacking up 3 pointers more than playing defense will win a championship

 

[3rdWorld]

You have to be harsh with her for her to understand she's choosing from the nearest dog pound out there. Those are her options at the end of the day.

Tell her even if she holds you in high regard, she doesnt know you like that because you're also out there beating women's guts in any chance you get.

There's a right guy, but he's far from perfect. Knights in shining armor no longer exist.

 

[old pig]

@Eric Brooks tell her I’m right here…hook me up breh

 

[Dont@Me]

tell her he's 20lbs. away. That'll REALLY fukk with her head

 

[Gloxina]

You need to be brutally honest with her to shake her out of the fairytale world she lives in.

 

[drederick tatum]

If she wants to believe her Mr. Right is out there, let her. I mean, he is, but she might never find him. But her thinking it is probably keeping her standards high. If you break the illusion, she's more likely to settle for some ain't shyt dudes.

 

[Commish]

OP..

You may wanna fall back on your cuzzo ans let her figure it out on her own..

With you, I wouldn't say that there is no such thing as a Mr. Right. But, what your cuzzo can't do is force someone and/or attempt to change that person to be her ideal mate.

She is going to have to accept people for who they are! No person is perfect as you stated and that includes your cuzzo.

So, if she asks you for advice, perhaps you could tell her that you gonna sit that one out and let her do her and deal with the outcome of her choices & decisions.

 

[Gunz&Butta]

So yall don't think there's a right man out there for her? Isn't that the definition of Mr Right or am I missing something?