how do i improve social skills?

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exactly. i wasnt born with the gift of the gab. its hard out here

Damn can't read, can't think, can't talk, can't dress, can't fukk, can't do anything...just due yourself a favor and go too the military; I know you would have to give up the coli for a bit, but its the only alternative outside of becoming a mountain man and hunting your food for the rest of your life...
 

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Damn can't read, can't think, can't talk, can't dress, can't fukk, can't do anything...just due yourself a favor and go too the military; I know you would have to give up the coli for a bit, but its the only alternative outside of becoming a mountain man and hunting your food for the rest of your life...

what should i join as tho? infantry? cus i like fitness and doing stuff.
 

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I think its somewhat genetic,so you either got it or you don't:manny:....but a lot of people don't have social skills,i think you can learn to be average though just by doing it more probably.
 

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I think a starting place would be to develop confidence in yourself and raise your self esteem. Perception and presentation is everything

nothing i do raises my confidence. even when i win my fights i dont get any confidence boost cus i dont believe in confidence. i believe in skills. confidence for me doesnt mean anything. cus if you dont have the skills to do something no amount of confidence is going to help you do that thing. you see where im coming from?
 

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nothing i do raises my confidence. even when i win my fights i dont get any confidence boost cus i dont believe in confidence. i believe in skills. confidence for me doesnt mean anything. cus if you dont have the skills to do something no amount of confidence is going to help you do that thing. you see where im coming from?

This is illogical but I'll et you cook breh; No I won't this is stupid. So a person who has no skill in cooking creates a great dish one night does not develop confidence that his cooking skills have improved after working at it? Plus look at Michael Jordan, etc.
 

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nothing i do raises my confidence. even when i win my fights i dont get any confidence boost cus i dont believe in confidence. i believe in skills. confidence for me doesnt mean anything. cus if you dont have the skills to do something no amount of confidence is going to help you do that thing. you see where im coming from?
I feel you 100 but the western world has turned into a hyper image conscious society where appearing competent is more important than being competent.
 

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start off by loggin off this site for a lil bit and going outside..


Just a guess:manny:

k. i didt that today. and yesterday. and the day before that. didnt get any social skills from it tho. i mean i got fitter cus i was doing hill sprints and roadwork. you dont need money to go for runs :umad:
 

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This is illogical but I'll et you cook breh; No I won't this is stupid. So a person who has no skill in cooking creates a great dish one night does not develop confidence that his cooking skills have improved after working at it? Plus look at Michael Jordan, etc.

how is he gonna create a great dish if he doesnt have the skills to do so?
 

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how is he gonna create a great dish if he doesnt have the skills to do so?

He improves his skills, just like athletes do to get better; A football player that played with me in college had never played ball before and had no skills, but he did exercises and practices to build skills and confidence came with it;
 
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