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No I'm a sweet woman and I don't like thugs. I didn't say they didn't exist I said they aren't around. Every guy wants to be " hood " these days. That's why they think it's cute to be "that nikka" instead of being a man. Do you know how many times I have heard a black guy say to another black guy.... You ain't a real nikka like me

Why the fukk would you want to aspire to be a nikka? Be a man.

I still love my black men though:wow:
 

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No I'm a sweet woman and I don't like thugs. I didn't say they didn't exist I said they aren't around. Every guy wants to be " hood " these days. That's why they think it's cute to be "that nikka" instead of being a man. Do you know how many times I have heard a black guy say to another black guy.... You ain't a real nikka like me

Why the fukk would you want to aspire to be a nikka? Be a man.

I still love my black men though:wow:
Where do you live?
 

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No I'm a sweet woman and I don't like thugs. I didn't say they didn't exist I said they aren't around. Every guy wants to be " hood " these days. That's why they think it's cute to be "that nikka" instead of being a man. Do you know how many times I have heard a black guy say to another black guy.... You ain't a real nikka like me

Why the fukk would you want to aspire to be a nikka? Be a man.

I still love my black men though:wow:
Again, its you.
 

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So who do you prefer,
A man that's a virgin or a Man that has experience?

I don't think it's fair to look down on men that's virgins then express why aren't there any virgins around here your age even though you prefer a man that is experienced.

The nice men you are looking for will want a nice woman and vice versa,
Both who kept their virginty for the right person.

Since you not a virgin why should a man who has kept his virginty for so long want you who is not a virgin? Same thing for women that are virgins and men who are not.

Also,
Are you a born again virgin?

I'm just trying to understand the gist of this thread.
 
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You guys want your women to be innocent maybe not virgin innocent but innocent as in not have been involved with a lot of guys. Sexual or none sexual but it's okay for y'all to sleep with everything under the sun. I'm still waiting on a legitimate response instead of its a mans world.

The double standard is: yall have innies, we have outties. We don't want an abused, worn, and stretched out snapper. That ain't appealing to us.

Plus, I don't get why women don't understand that we are not wired the same. We are biologically inclined to hunt. In some species, the male has to jump through hoops to beat. The female isn't just accepting all suitors. That's why we don't wanna wife hoes. It's unnatural
 

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So who do you prefer,
A man that's a virgin or a Man that has experience?

I don't think it's fair to look down on men that's virgins then express why aren't there any virgins around here your age even though you prefer a man that is experienced.

The nice men you are looking for will want a nice woman and vice versa,
Both who kept their virginty for the right person.

Since you not a virgin why should a man who has kept his virginty for so long want you who is not a virgin? Same thing for women that are virgins and men who are not.

Also,
Are you a born again virgin?

I'm just trying to understand the gist of this thread.
I never said I looked down on virgins. I prefer experienced. And no I'm not a born again virgin
 

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You would be surprised by how many women are not into men who sleep around a lot especially since HIV and AIDs is running rampant.

I don't like man whores. I had a guy who was interested in me tell me how many women he slept with. He kept telling me he was selective so I asked how many and he said 15 women. He had been with his ex for a couple years and he is only 23 so to rack up 15 women at 23 wasn't selective to me.



you should not be having conversations about your sexual past to a possible suitor or a confirmed mate.
as, it can breed heat, and contempt.
leading to self imposed mistrust and change the ebb and flow of a possible stable relationship.

anyway,...fifteen women at twenty three is not a lot.

from fifteen to twenty he could have slept with three woman a year.
which is a woman every four months.
you just are sexually immature.
so. you have and pose these questions or create a avenue for this type of convo.
when, it is none of your business.
only way your sexual history is known.
is if you have a sex industry trade job.

then, the person has no virtue and is incapable of having a committment based relationship, period.
any person entertaining a sex trade worker.
as a mate on a committed level is a vic.

if a person is not selling their virtue.
or creating a price list as a requirement to committ or find a mate.
then, you should have no problem with them as a possible suitor.
nor, should you be asking questions pertaining to their sexual history.

art barr
 

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or maybe the guy is attractive, that's why a lot of girls like him....and why the o/p would like him :leostare:



you are living a lie.
it is a general fact,...
in general females are only attracted to males who are currently unavailable.
i worked in female dominated industries, and i have heard it from an overwhelming number of them in different circumstances on numerous occassions.
with completely separate parties, and i know they deflect the same taken energy.
on themselves and females now willingly are open to find a guy to cheat on their committal with as a result.

maybe you are young and just looking for the answers.
yet, past this convo.
you need to find out the generalization for yourself.
as i think you are a female.
so, you will never find a real male to break kayfabe and give you the real.
only males breaking kayfabe are betas in friend zone.
you can't trust their words cause they are friend zone betas.



art barr
 
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