How do nikkas eat with online dating?

Y'all eating?

  • Everyday :eat:

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  • Fridge is empty

    Votes: 5 26.3%
  • Go outside meet real women

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SouljaVoy

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Bruh take it from someone who has experience, it's a waste of time.

Dating sites have a male to female ratio of like 30:1.... So even if you are handsome (such as myself) you wont be shyt on a dating site (like OKcupid or POF) unless you are flashing foreign whips... The attractive girls on the site get like 100 messages every minute (literally) so they will only choose the cream of the crop. And I'm actually considered a catch in real life... but on POF I wasn't shyt. It's very demeaning.

I've went on dates with about 3 chicks I met online...It was okay, but I wasnt attracted to her when I saw her in real life... The other chick was CRAZY... One thing I realize is girls on dating sites are the worst.

You will have the most luck on OkCupid.... POF is a POS
 

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Go outside and meet real women...I just talked to four women at the bar just now. Went very well. I hate online dating. I don't like putting my picture on dating sites for one. Two, it's just weird for me. Three, when I did have an okcupid account (before I deleted it), I literally didn't know what I was doing. I never messaged anyone, but managed to have some real cuties message me (only three, one black girl, two white girls). Nothing ever came of it and I really didn't care, so I deleted that account. Which leads me to four...I had an account on adult friend finder and I was disgusted by all of the nasty, triflin, single mothers that were messaging me...like I would even fukk with them...:scust: that account got deleted too.

fukk online dating...I'm happy meeting women in real life. That's how I met my last chick...I like seeing what they look like in front of me with no deceptive angles. Also, from what I've noticed...people tend to act real different online compared to in real life. In real life face to face convos, women are more honest. Online, they don't even have to acknowledge you and can say the most grimy shyt to you that wouldn't say in real life.

Personally, with my experiences as a black man...online dating absolutely sucks and I hate it. I get way more love from women in real life...
No offense brah but you sound like you flexing. All 3 girls who hit you were cute? You prolly didn't message them back right?
 
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No offense brah but you sound like you flexing. All 3 girls who hit you were cute? You prolly didn't message them back right?
I did actually. It was just a basic conversation between us (where you from, how long have you been living in new york, etc). I'm just not used to that type of attention online, I was just kind of shocked and didn't know what to think of it. I just think the whole you message someone and they message you back (hopefully) thing is weird that's why I don't like online dating. Plus it seems so ingenuine.
 

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Instagram + Kik.

Only thing is finding a female in my area that is a struggle at times. All the bad hoes from Atlanta (or Mississippi :wtf:)it seems.

I'm about to hop in some random DM's now to see what I can cook up:cook:. I'm inspired
Put me up on game on how to slide in them DMs, I sent one once. I literally sent this:shaq:, and she gave me a lol and that it was creepy :mjcry:

I suck with social sites and texting, what are some openers?:feedme:
 

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Breh, I didn't understand why people used to toss dirt on online dating until just recently. I made an account and the amount of overweight women with children and their high standards is just :scust:. Not even on a hating tip.

I'm friends with a chick who isn't really a killer looks wise but is cool people regardless. She asked me to help her come up with a Tinder. In a month, the app wouldn't even let her make new matches. The number of dudes offering to take her to dinner was closing on triple digits. As a man, if you're not in the top 10% or firing off messages all day, you gonna get lost in these waters.

And as a black man preferring to look for a black woman, the outlook just ain't that bright online. I'll keep an open mind for a bit though.
 

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Breh, I didn't understand why people used to toss dirt on online dating until just recently. I made an account and the amount of overweight women with children and their high standards is just :scust:. Not even on a hating tip.

I'm friends with a chick who isn't really a killer looks wise but is cool people regardless. She asked me to help her come up with a Tinder. In a month, the app wouldn't even let her make new matches. The number of dudes offering to take her to dinner was closing on triple digits. As a man, if you're not in the top 10% or firing off messages all day, you gonna get lost in these waters.

And as a black man preferring to look for a black woman, the outlook just ain't that bright online. I'll keep an open mind for a bit though.
One of the reasons I gave it up, Met this one Persian chick who ended up being fat and annoying (she was sexy in them pics tho:takedat:), I told her ima put myself in the friend zone:francis:. When the check came, I said we're just friends so you can pay for your food.:patrice:

She looked at me like :dwillhuh: im like im not joking :skip::pachaha:
Gave her a hug and dipped to a different chicks house for some head.:whew:

Fat chicks pick the best food spot tho :ohlawd:
 

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I checked it out never heard if it before, but whats up with that V.I.P shyt? im not paying to message hoes

Actually tried it out today for the first time..was too lazy to try convince a hoe in the streets to come spend a weekend with me so I went looking online for the desperate ones.
that fukking $2.65 put me the fukk off!!
 

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Actually tried it out today for the first time..was too lazy to try convince a hoe in the streets to come spend a weekend with me so I went looking online for the desperate ones.
that fukking $2.65 put me the fukk off!!
My too, I made a kik, and put it in my profile, and sent off a few flirts. I didnt add any pics tho.

It was a couple nice black chicks on there but they shyt was set at white men. shyt hurt my soul.:mjcry:
 

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My too, I made a kik, and put it in my profile, and sent off a few flirts. I didnt add any pics tho.

It was a couple nice black chicks on there but they shyt was set at white men. shyt hurt my soul.:mjcry:

You too:mjlol:

I refuse to put my picture on these shyts, let alone my real name and b'day..

sent out a few rose flirts as well to test the waters and see if one bites, but that place is disgusting..its like a wenches wet dream. all the bytches in their 20s dont mind old white men hitting them up.:scust:
 

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I did actually. It was just a basic conversation between us (where you from, how long have you been living in new york, etc). I'm just not used to that type of attention online, I was just kind of shocked and didn't know what to think of it. I just think the whole you message someone and they message you back (hopefully) thing is weird that's why I don't like online dating. Plus it seems so ingenuine.
You think meeting a drunk chick at the bar is better?
 

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Online dating gives a big advantage to handsome brehs compared to real life.

Cuz that's all they have to judge u off of. A pic and a blurb

Just saying tho if u want quantity then date online. But if u want quality then real life it. U can do both I guess.
The key to eating online is first look like a dude that can get chicks in the real world. Be interesting and ask the right open-end questions. Humor keeps them engaged. Talk like them fukking with you benefits them. Talk about sex with double entendres. They'll peep it but it doesn't come off as creepy and desperate. If your money right unlike mines right now then you can set up a rendezvous then you're in there. If your mouthpiece was right on the net then you have higher odds knocking her down first night since she "knows" you.
 
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