How Do Sober People Have Fun?

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I can't remember that life tho :sadcam:
Honestly being sober is the most difficult thing I've had to do over the past few years. I "relapse" all the time to the point where I feel like it's damn near impossible for me to be sober. I'm disgusted with the fact that I can't enjoy life without drugs/alcohol.

embrace that demonic lifestyle breh :demonic:

one thing I know for sure: i'm gonna be drunk when I die :wow:
 

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[QLikewise. rianaGrande, post: 8481004, member: 8032"]I can't remember that life tho :sadcam:
Honestly being sober is the most difficult thing I've had to do over the past few years. I "relapse" all the time to the point where I feel like it's damn near impossible for me to be sober. I'm disgusted with the fact that I can't enjoy life without drugs/alcohol.[/QUOTE]

Likewise.
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I can't remember that life tho :sadcam:
Honestly being sober is the most difficult thing I've had to do over the past few years. I "relapse" all the time to the point where I feel like it's damn near impossible for me to be sober. I'm disgusted with the fact that I can't enjoy life without drugs/alcohol.

You can.

The problem is you want it to be easy.
 

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Never smoked a day in my life [anything]

have tasted a few drinks before but they all taste horrible to me, so never again. last thing i tasted was a shot of ciroc because apparently people who drink are uncomfortable around people who don't drink because they think they're being judged...[trust us, you're not]
 

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Never smoked a day in my life [anything]

have tasted a few drinks before but they all taste horrible to me, so never again. last thing i tasted was a shot of ciroc because apparently people who drink are uncomfortable around people who don't drink because they think they're being judged...[trust us, you're not]

That happened to me a few weeks back at a party. Mfers complaining about me not drinking. Got to the point where some of em was getting mad. "Whas wrong wit him? Think he all goody goody"

I was like shut up bytch you don't wanna see me fukked up. I'd have your ass stealing from your mama purse, selling p*ssy and aborting babies.


That's good you hate the taste and never tried certain things but don't think for one second that makes you immune to suddenly becoming hooked.

If I were you I'd cut out that "I did it to please others" shyt. You might wind up tasting something you like, next thing ya know you like how it feels, next thing ya know it has you thinking you fukk better on it like the idiots in this thread and before you know it your at it on the regular.

Do like I do ":whoa:none for me thanx"
 

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That happened to me a few weeks back at a party. Mfers complaining about me not drinking. Got to the point where some of em was getting mad. "Whas wrong wit him? Think he all goody goody"

I was like shut up bytch you don't wanna see me fukked up. I'd have your ass stealing from your mama purse, selling p*ssy and aborting babies.


That's good you hate the taste and never tried certain things but don't think for one second that makes you immune to suddenly becoming hooked.

If I were you I'd cut out that "I did it to please others" shyt. You might wind up tasting something you like, next thing ya know you like how it feels, next thing ya know it has you thinking you fukk better on it like the idiots in this thread and before you know it your at it on the regular.

Do like I do ":whoa:none for me thanx"

the taste testing was done over a span of 6 years..literally about 6 drinks..2 rum and cokes [sips literally], a shot a patron, a shot of tequila, and a shot of ciroc...never again..i'll just remove myself from wherever i'm at.

Went to a club once. my boy whose also straightedge was with me..he asked for an orange juice, i asked for water..Bartender said ok what else..we said that's all she hit us with the :dahell:

me and him we're like :birdman: :umad:well....

i know i'm not immune to it..had a lot of fam succumb to addiction, i some how lucked up and have both parents who don't smoke or drink either.
 

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I have three months now of being mostly sober, I slipped up a few times, its the most sober I've been since I was 12. Never thought this was gonna happen but after a few weeks I started having more energy, sleeping better, and I learned how to actually solve problems instead of running and ignoring them.

Right now fun is taking my kids out, talking to new people (sober), just got into boxing, listening to music or podcast, exercising has started, trying to eat better, reading.
 

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the taste testing was done over a span of 6 years..literally about 6 drinks..2 rum and cokes [sips literally], a shot a patron, a shot of tequila, and a shot of ciroc...never again..i'll just remove myself from wherever i'm at.

Went to a club once. my boy whose also straightedge was with me..he asked for an orange juice, i asked for water..Bartender said ok what else..we said that's all she hit us with the :dahell:

me and him we're like :birdman: :umad:well....

i know i'm not immune to it..had a lot of fam succumb to addiction, i some how lucked up and have both parents who don't smoke or drink either.

Your parents don't have to be. That trait can still be in your blood through grandparents etc. And that's the smartest decision a man can make to just remove himself from a party or gathering where the pressure to drink is growing. Just be like "I'm outta here" because if you chill long enough you'll eventually go "pour me one...fukk it"

That club story :russ:

Man I can't go to the club :to: I know me. I can't go and just order water. The lights, the music, the bytches,the asses are like full moon shyt to me, my nails start growing my pupils turn red hair growing on back of my hands and fangs and shyt....in other words it makes me wanna tear some shyt up and it all starts with "Ay bartender...brang me one".

Water? At the club? For me?:childplease:....all it's gonna take is for one of those drunk big booty sluts to whisper in my ear "why are you drinking water:usure:...oh and I love you :shaq:"


":why:BARTENDER BRING ME EVERYTHING YA GOT!!!:damn:"



Keep my boring ass at home these days...my life is just fine lol
 

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I have three months now of being mostly sober, I slipped up a few times, its the most sober I've been since I was 12. Never thought this was gonna happen but after a few weeks I started having more energy, sleeping better, and I learned how to actually solve problems instead of running and ignoring them.

Right now fun is taking my kids out, talking to new people (sober), just got into boxing, listening to music or podcast, exercising has started, trying to eat better, reading.
:salute::salute::salute:
 

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@Marcozen Salute man. It's hilarious how aggro people became with you when you challenged their behavior and their reasoning.

I stopped drinking in 2010 and it was entirely too easy. I took that to mean that I never liked it at all because it took no effort to stop. I never smoked and tried cigarettes but those things are terrible. My funniest experiences have been seeing the reactions of people when I tell them that I don't drink.

"What do you mean you don't drink?"
"Did something bad happen?"
"You're lying. Right? RIGHT?!"
Or my favorite, The instant expression on their face of them thinking that I'm judging them or that they've been making the wrong decision for a long time.

I don't care that people drink. I just care that if you don't care, why is the mere notion that I don't partake such a revelation?

To answer the OP, I just do the same things that I always do. I don't notice a difference except for more money in my account and that I'm in control of my situation at all times. Drinking doesn't mean shyt to me and I'm fine without it and I don't care about smoking at all. And yes, laughing at drunk people is pretty fun.
 
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