I have to add that money is not an equalizer. It can help you look better but it will only attract gold diggers who don't gaf about you without the money.
Women love to say this as if money is never a part of why women in general chase certain the men the way they do. Newsflash, most women won’t gaf about a man if he doesn’t have money, period. Most men learn eventually only their mothers love them unconditionally, every other women lives who he’s made himself out to be and how much money that man touches is a part of that.
That gold digging claim is a shaming tactic when brought up in debates. It’s like telling a young woman she’s going to be alone when older based off how much men she rejects now.