A lot of different dynamics to this issue. Non really guaranteed.
We talking first date or what? You can give yourself a better shoot.
1.If you can get the girl to agree to come over late in the evening to chill. Hint about how you like cuddling and see if she's quiet (means she open to it) or if she shuts that notion down.
2. Have a clean, cozy, good smelling house. A cozy sofa. Wine, wine, wine!
Quick story about the first time I had sex with my Asian chick. I invited her over for dinner. She brought wine w/o me asking.

While I was cooking I was like "come take a shot with me" of course she did. 2 or 3 shoots, plus the wine with dinner and the movie. Before we knew it, we were cuddling on the sofa. My dikk harder than the floors in the projects. She goes to her car and grabs her night bag. Puts on some very short black cotton shorts. Dikk even harder now. I started rubbing them smooth yellow legs. Her hair was smelling so good. Like that good CAC shampoo.
me: We can go finish this movie in the room.
her: Ok.
few minutes later I was pulling them shorts and draws off. And I'll never forget what she asked before I entered that sweet paradise between your legs.
her: You really want me don't you?
me: More than anything

(I wanted that girl like I wanted a bike and Nintendo as a kid)
I'm just remisncing bruh.

That was life changing. Felt like a born loser, finally getting a big win. That did so much for my confidence and ego. I actually started stunting on her a few later.
Back to the topic. You can set it up to give yourself a better shot at the draws.