meh..."good personality" is vague as it gets.
smh lolnot sure ask @observe but i dont think he pulls girls unless they from the shelter![]()

This is what I've both heard and seen.Chicks don't wanna be the ugly one in the relationship. By being the hot one they have leverage.

You'd be surprised how many beautiful women aren't approached. So if a not so attractive guy approaches her right and has a good personality it can happen. Humor also helps.
As someone who is happy to admit he wouldn't pull women if he wasn't attractive this is something I've always wondered. My current girl has even admitted as such.
I know ugly cats say they overcompensate with their humor or personality but surely there needs to be a physical attraction?
I ain't talking about ugly rich nikkas either. So leave rappers, ball players and old cacs out of this thread.

These bs lies women continue to sell to males.
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Lie for what though? What purpose would that serve me?
I've heard a few of my female friends/cousins also say this. I find it hard to believe for some reason.You'd be surprised how many beautiful women aren't approached
I have a childhood ugly friend who has both the traits that you've just mentioned but always seemed to be stuck in the 'friendzone' whenever he approached attractive women. Eventually, he started dating on his level after high-school and got married around 2 years ago.So if a not so attractive guy approaches her right and has a good personality it can happen. Humor also helps.


Ive never met a attractive women in this day and age who didn't have a plethora of guys hollering at her.
That old wives tale of hot women not being hit on is basura

You don't know every attractive woman. I have seen it. Just like I have seen guys not a approach a woman because he feels she is out his league or assumes she has someone. It happens all the time.