Generalizing black people and talk shyt about people who care about the community has never helped us progressMy perspective is people like you are lazy excuse makers. Everything you mentioned damn near is about how somebody else controls what happens to you are you grown are a baby? Is there nothing you can do at all to improve wherever your currently at? If so get on and stop with the excuses esp the ones that focus on others cause that's a losing game damn near every time.
As far as the thread I think a lot of people would just improve their situations as black people or any people by not wasting their free time. People on here all day talking about shyt they know the answer too just so they feel like they've done something when in fact you haven't done shyt. I think that's a big thing people need to do and not just that but limit fun until you are at whatever level you want to be at. Being on here, watching tv, partying isn't going to help at all. If you are going to be online use that time to work on things that can be done for cheap aka bootstraps (since dudes like to hate on that word) until other see the vision. Learn about stocks, start a YouTube channel, open a store, blog, podcast, something instead of just bullshytting on here and other places then complaining about why you can't get ahead when you really ain't trying. Its very few that win the genetic or real lottery everybody else gotta put in work period.
Maybe you should have decided to chill with all this stupid shyt.
Peace

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It's called a family for a reason breh. These affairs can cause you to lose your home, your wife, your kids, your health, your finances and in some cases, your life. Most all these guys have them and I can't respect a female who has been one.
while that may or may not be true, the relationship is built off of sex and with sex, babies and stds are born. Would you raise the sidepieces child if she happened to get pregnant? Even if you are, the relationship is based off sex for most part. My rule has always been "if i cant see her as someone in my future, i'm not fukking". Easy to follow when you have a fear of stds