How do we feel about having a "work gf/bf"?

[End Cruelty]

and becoming part of her own three-some

this is where the logic fails for nikkas who think its cool to have a work-gf or a side-piece

I don't get that serious with my work gf.

 

[Turbulent]

I feel like it's corny white people type behavior

 

[LadySimone]

I've always had work husbands. Made work great to go to. My fav was Thom. Haven't worked with him in three years and moved away but we still text eachother everyday. He has a fiancé and she knows about me. No big deal. He is in love and nothing would change that.

 

[Anerdyblackguy]

Yea because how would I know unless she told me? If she tells me then I have nothing to fear. If she was gonna cheat she would cheat regardless.

The moment she tells you she has a male office boyfriend, is the day your relationship is over.

Aren't you not suppose to make female friends when you already have a girlfriend? I've never been a believer of being friends with women when you already have a girlfriend. Too tacky!!

 

[Pete Wrigley]

Always gotta have one. Otherwise working iOS even more boring

I agree breh, just means you need to make that switch to Android.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

The title should make it an automatic no.

 

[End Cruelty]

I've always had work husbands. Made work great to go to. My fav was Thom. Haven't worked with him in three years and moved away but we still text eachother everyday. He has a fiancé and she knows about me. No big deal. He is in love and nothing would change that.

I have an old one too. Been about 7 years and we still talk. It's always fun imo.

The moment she tells you she has a male office boyfriend, is the day your relationship is over.

Aren't you not suppose to make female friends when you already have a girlfriend? I've never been a believer of being friends with women when you already have a girlfriend. Too tacky!!

having friends is tacky?

 

[Anerdyblackguy]

I have an old one too. Been about 7 years and we still talk. It's always fun imo.

having friends is tacky?

Having female friends when you have a girlfriend is kind of tacky.

 

[agnosticlady]

From what I have seen it usually ends badly.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Having female friends when you have a girlfriend is kind of tacky.

I think making new female friends when you are in a commited relationship is tacky.

 

[End Cruelty]

Having female friends when you have a girlfriend is kind of tacky.

No...what's tacky is following some unwritten dating code because you have trust issues.

 

[End Cruelty]

From what I have seen it usually ends badly.

In what way?

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Why do you believe that? My relationship is fine and my work gf is just extra attention. My real gf knows about her. Sounds like harmless fun that could lead to a three some but I digress.

No...what's tacky is following some unwritten dating code because you have trust issues.

It's actually more of a respect issue. The first quote shows where your mind is really at. It's not about "friendship" ( I don't try to have sex with my friends). It's about you still keeping new sexual options open which depending on the terms of your relationship is the opposite of commitment unless of course that is what you and your girl are into. If that's the case it's all good.

 

[End Cruelty]

It's actually more of a respect issue. The first quote shows where your mind is really at. It's not about "friendship" ( I don't try to have sex with my friends). It's about you still keeping new sexual options open which depending on the terms of your relationship is the opposite of commitment unless of course that is what you and your girl are into. If that's the case it's all good.

I live in Vegas. That might clear some things up lol.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

I live in Vegas. That might clear some things up lol.

Not really. People in commited relationships in Vegas all try to get their co-workers into threesomes?

Friends are friends. Just call it what it really is.