How do women react when you take them on a first date for coffee or walk in the park?

Coco Loco

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You a real one.

But a lot of women would disagree with you.


Oh I know. My tolerance for bs is very low. The thought of getting all dolled up to end up sitting across from someone with 2 brain cells etc for a few hours makes my ass itch lol.

I don’t want my time or his time wasted. It don’t even have to be coffee it could be ice cream or a slice but let’s see if we even like each other before wasting our time

I’ve gone on a few dates I wish were coffee dates. Big yikes
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Pick a nice park to walk through. The harry p leu gardens in Orlando is a great walk, if you're high it'll be a whole other crazy experience. Good exercise, big park lots of flora to see, probably gonna take 30min to walk most of it, plenty of time to get to know each other well. Usually 10$ per person but sometimes is free. I know the key word was free but basically any park that's impressive looking should be pleasant for most women.




.Also, it's better to smoke crack together
 

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“Coffee dates” are very practical. Some women don’t like it but they truly are good at weeding out people very quickly and moving on.

Very little time was wasted and both people can continue on with the rest of their day. If they’re feeling each other they can progress to an actual date
What kind of dates do dudes hit you up the most with?
 
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Most women offer coffee dates as the first encounter. I don’t drink coffee and i’m not cheap so I actually prefer a dinner date.


I can only speak for the black demographic where I reside (Atlanta) but many women do not SEEM to be as hung up on expensive dates or outings when they first meet a dude. Many women i’ve taken out on the first few dates its something like dinner, maybe Main Event, Top Golf, nothing too crazy at all and a good 95% of them have been with it and had a good time:yeshrug:
 

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Lets be reality in 2021 taking women out for just coffee dates or walks the park is dunzo. Women have already flagged it as a tactic of broke people (regardless if you are or aren't). Even if the ones that say yes will most likely never go out with you again. Its ok to use when you are 18-21, but if you are employed in your mid 20s to 30s you as man should he able to at least do a 2 for 20 at the applebees or Fridays.

With that said I wouldn't let a woman guilt you into spending all got either.
 

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Coffee always worked for me. Now I see it’s one of those dates that dudes use too much now.
 

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Now every woman says "I don't drink coffee"
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You broke nikkas ruined the coffee date
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This is not an option, bytch...you gon’ drink this coffee or else we gon’ have us a problem.
 

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This is not an option, bytch...you gon’ drink this coffee or else we gon’ have us a problem.

Lmao. These women bold as hell. I've had women legit turn down dates or ask for food when I offered them coffee.
 

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I’ve noticed women will recommend them as a first date. I’m more of a dinner guy but women in 2021 are a lot more cognizant of going on real dates with men they’re not sure they’re interested in. I think it’s because they have gotten their asses cursed tf out for playing.
 

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Lets be reality in 2021 taking women out for just coffee dates or walks the park is dunzo. Women have already flagged it as a tactic of broke people (regardless if you are or aren't). Even if the ones that say yes will most likely never go out with you again. Its ok to use when you are 18-21, but if you are employed in your mid 20s to 30s you as man should he able to at least do a 2 for 20 at the applebees or Fridays.

With that said I wouldn't let a woman guilt you into spending all got either.
It's equal reality to know that 2 for 20 is still gonna end at $50+ though. Apps and drinks.
 

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Just go for drinks wtf... Park and coffee ain't giving off fukk me I'm the shyt vibes.

You gotta aim to smash first date brehs
 
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