how do yall deal with regret?

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If you are about to turn 30 you have to remember that you are still relatively young. You have another 30-35 years until you retire.
 

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Forget about it and keep pushing. I don't regret things. I look at it as an opportunity that just wasn't for me. Things don't always work out in life. There's no good reason to harp on past failures. Let that shyt go fam. You got a lot ahead of you to focus on. If you're looking back you will miss new opportunities to be successful
 

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Weed and Prayer.... Ask God for forgiveness, then forgive yourself.

God already forgave... it just takes time for us to forgive ourselves.
 

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I went through years of depression over his shyt.

What advice i can offer is to write all that shyt down so you dont dwell on it day in and day out. Next thing is (easier said than done) is to accept that its the past and aint a damn thing you can do about the past (took me two years to get to that point) . It never goes away ,its more that you just live with it.


Last step? . You still gotta life to live man. Not only that you gotta learn to live in the moment, keep those mistakes in so you don’t repeat them ( atleast try not to because we are human) .


Stay up op.
 

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learn from it & move on

cuz you can't control the past, only the present & future
 

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Breh it is IMPOSSIBLE to go thru life w no regret. That would be like doing everything perfectly the first time every time.

Now take that and be glad u still alive and kicking to at least do better the next day cuz a lot of people did shyt they instantly regretted and kicked the bucket right after.

yea ain't no such thing as "perfect"

unless you one of God's angels, or a robot/machine

basically a non-living entity..

chasing the fallacy of perfection is a waste of time & effort
 

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•I regret not learning how to deejay when I was constantly in the presence of DJs in Upstate NY in '11 and '12...

•I regret not going to Howard. I was accepted into their sociology program in January 2013 for the 2013-14 school year. Decided not to go...

Those are my two biggest regrets as an adult. Sometimes I get pissed off about em but im over it like 20 minutes later...

You live and learn and use the mistakes and regrets as fuel to be better in the future, can't beat yourself down about it!
 

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yea ain't no such thing as perfect..

unless you one of God's angels, or a robot/machine

basically a non-living entity..

chasing the fallacy of perfection is a waste of time & effort
I disagree bro.


Perfection cannot he achieved but chasing it can result in excellence. Basically try to do everything right but learn from you do it wrong.
 

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I disagree bro.


Perfection cannot he achieved but chasing it can result in excellence. Basically try to do everything right but learn from you do it wrong.

that's just doing your best and learning as you go

but this idea of being "perfect" or without fault is ridiculous

cuz life is a journey not a destination
 
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Breh it is IMPOSSIBLE to go thru life w no regret. That would be like doing everything perfectly the first time every time.

Now take that and be glad u still alive and kicking to at least do better the next day cuz a lot of people did shyt they instantly regretted and kicked the bucket right after.

Facts
Or in the pen
 

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By making up for it.

Consider that if the experiences in life didn't happen you wouldn't have the extra motivation to do whatever it is you plan to do in the future to change it.
 
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