How do y'all go out alone?

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Lol yeah, that's how you gotta think about it.

I stopped going out for 3 years because I had no one to go with and I cuffed a bytch I hate now, instead of going out every week like I'm supposed to.

Now when I go I feel rusty because I still don't go as often as I like.

But when you think about it, going out solo gives you the best chance to get ass because you n a bytch can dip and you don't have to worry about nothing.

I just am not used to it tho, being somewhere u never been before alone sucks because you don't know how it'll be.

I gotta really start going out more, it's been 3 weeks.

How often do u go out solo to the clubs and bars during a week?



Been doing this for years. Thought something was wrong for me for PREFERRING it. I damn near prefer it at this point.

U go out w ur boys.....u gotta babysit them cus their too drunk, or they throw salt in ur game, or they get into a fight. Or u gotta let em know u left the spot w a skank. Then u got a large group of guy friends dancing w each other looking LAME AS fukk. shyt gets old quick. I been hittin up bars & clubs by myself or at the most 1 other person AS A RULE since I was 22. I'm 26 now. I learned that shyt early and my chocha rate has gone up since I've done it.

Lowkey being a lone wolf makes u sexy bold and mysterious to these hoes. Atleast that's how I'm described when I pull this shyt off since most people need their hand held doing stuff.

It's to the point now where I go on vacations by myself. Everyone has excuses, most dudes don't got passports, and a lotta people just don't wanna step out they comfort zones. I've gone to countries dolo and made new friends there off the random that I still hit up. I'm so sick of the excuses people make . If u don't wanna go with me I'll go either way, if u come that's cool. If not? Whatever.

I see it as an adventure. On some story mode on Super Mario 64 type shyt. But I can make friends & connects ANYWHERE. I'm that confident in myself.

Quit being clingy/needy OP. U sound like a woman.
 

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Back when I used to hit up clubs I only went solo.. Only time I went with a crew is when I was on vac in my hometown and that's where my boys or fam wanna link up at but other then that na..

By myself its more enjoyable.. I don't have to keep a convo going with the nikkaz I came with or be on some dumb ass competition with them getting at bytches ..I can go and come as I please and aint gotta wait on a mf..

Plus I found that bytches might be attracted to that for some reason. I've had more women approach me in clubs when I'm solo than when not.. One time I had two run up on me at the same time saying "you over here having a blast all by yourself huh :shaq:"

I guess it something about being comfortable by yourself/ comfortable with yourself/ sure of yourself that they like idk :manny:
 

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Well... I just go out by myself. I do it all the time. People ask me where are all my friend at? I tell them they didn’t want to come out. I even isolate myself in the room so nobody will talk to me. shyt, I’m doing it right now as I type. I’m at a bar n grill and it’s reagge night. It’s cold and raining in Florida. Someone played 50 cent “many men” on the jukebox :whew:
 

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Brah if you trying to talk to a group of chicks you gotta give each one of them attention. Women love attention and if you talk to one chick out the group and do give anyone else attention they will cockblock you. I go out solo all the time and learned this. :yeshrug:
 

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What u at jerk hut? What time the place close?

How ofthe do u go out dolo?


Well... I just go out by myself. I do it all the time. People ask me where are all my friend at? I tell them they didn’t want to come out. I even isolate myself in the room so nobody will talk to me. shyt, I’m doing it right now as I type. I’m at a bar n grill and it’s reagge night. It’s cold and raining in Florida. Someone played 50 cent “many men” on the jukebox :whew:
 

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Wished I live in a bigger and better city so I could go out alone :mjcry:


I know how you feel. I live in a bum ass town full of rich snobby white folks. No variety and sometimes I’m the only black dude in the room. (Nobody fukks with me though) When I have time I go out to Miami or Tampa. Last time I went to Gainesville and went fukking HAM on them college bars after the LSU vs Florida game. Someone told me Tallahassee is insane but its 7 hours away from SWFL
 

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So bars and lounges are good solo?

They're better than the club fr?

Maybe that's where I need to go.

What kind of bars u talking about?

I perfer bars cause there is no dress code and clubs be on that :mjpls:and there ain’t shyt to do here but go to clubs and bars. Brah just go out and talk to anyone sitting by you or they will talk to you or mind your business. That is what I do. shyt I got in a fight cause I got bored and I’m only 140lb 6 foot :bryan:
 

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How do you get the women to choose?
By not thinking like this .Literally stop giving a fukk right now.

nikka im 5'8" 120 lbs and i
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Why? My attitude. My aura. I truly only care about me. Which means Im not worried about nobody. Ladies like that shyt. Im not worried about bein short n skinny, i own that shyt .Its tight nikka. I always made fun of body builders lol

Hopefully you get my point tho. Focus on u.
 

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Is that the only one of it's kind?

I just said that because it seems like a place where they would have some shyt going on on a Sunday.



 

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How often u go out solo?


I perfer bars cause there is no dress code and clubs be on that :mjpls:and there ain’t shyt to do here but go to clubs and bars. Brah just go out and talk to anyone sitting by you or they will talk to you or mind your business. That is what I do. shyt I got in a fight cause I got bored and I’m only 140lb 6 foot :bryan:
 

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I was in the same boat when I was 21. I'm so used to going out with people that I didnt know how to go out alone. One day I said fukk it. Bars/Hookah lounges are the best honestly. I remember I went to a hookah spot on leave because I was bored. Didnt know anybody. I sat, smoked, had a coke to sip on because I dont drink alone. Most importantly I looked relaxed. You aint even gotta get fresh fresh honestly but have a haircut and some smell good. 20 minutes into chillin a shorty was talking to me. Asking who I was with, talking about she lived around there and dancing around me. Ever since then all I do is go out alone if I'm trying to meet women. nikkas are such a distraction.
 
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