How do y'all go out alone?

[Rozay Oro]

I'm an intorvert and don't have any friends, had a few but I really didn't keep contact.

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I'm comfortable being alone, but hitting up a bar/club alone is something completely different. I got no mouth piece really and can't dance so it's like I gotta take my ass back to this hotel like an old man

Thinking about doing Bachata or some shyt when I get back home, I been a lame for too long

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[Ezekiel 25:17]

Lowkey im glad you made this thread



I need to go out myself


Sitting in the house alone is mind numbingly boring

Yeah mane I work 5 days a week, by the time Im off go to the gym and get home I'm tired. Everybody at my office is over 45 married with kids. And then I play videogames on the weekend

Don't know why I don't hit up Chicago. Don't nothing about the city but it's an easy train ride. Lazinesss a huge reason too. When I get lazy issa wrap

 

[the cac mamba]

get drunk, take an uber downtown and see whats good

 

[Taadow]

I'm not a "bar" dude, per se...but I keep a Connect Four game in my trunk.

On the rare occasions I go to a bar (if I'm meeting a friend/s or otherwise), I take my Connect Four with me and set it up. Somebody will always play - boom, you met somebody.

 

[richaveli83]

I'm a introvert myself and used to be like you OP until I changed it up. Just get out and go. Like others have said go to a bar/lounge and just chill. Have a few drinks or snacks, watch a game, play pool, etc. Eventually you'll start talking to people. Even if you come off awkward/shy the more you do it the easier it will become and the less awkward you'll be.

Also don't just do it to just get women but do it to get out the house and open yourself up to new experiences.

 

[Wildin]

Just read the replies. They're right for the most part. Just talk to people.

If you need an intro or a hook wait for a broad to pay and if she has cash say something like "damn...what do you do for a living" and segue into regular convo. Or if they pay with card try to be slick like "is that an Amex black card?" If you have a mouthpiece it'll sound good and not like your phishing for information or going to rob them.

After you build rapport throw out a "what you doing after this?" Don't be afraid to suggest going to waffle house or some shyt or goings back to your place if you got it like that.

 

[Rozay Oro]

I'm not a "bar" dude, per se...but I keep a Connect Four game in my trunk.

On the rare occasions I go to a bar (if I'm meeting a friend/s or otherwise), I take my Connect Four with me and set it up. Somebody will always play - boom, you met somebody.

I hope this a troll post lmao

 

[⠀X ⠀]

How do you get the women to choose?

Make sure that when you step out, that you're looking good and smelling good. Nice shoes that stand out help, as does wearing a fitted blazer. That alone will have them checking you out. And the fact that you're there by yourself, just chillin, will have them slightly intrigued.

Some women choose harder than others. Some will talk to you and ask you dumb questions that make zero sense, and others might just stare at you briefly, stand really really close to you, or touch you as they walk past. When they do any of the above, just talk to them.

 

[Marc Spector]

get drunk, take an uber downtown and see whats good

DO NOT GET DRUNK.

One thing im learning as a man getting older is how sloppy being drunk really looks. Not to mention how compromising it is. And it stands out even more when youre alone.

Figure out what drinks hit u hardest and learn to gradually sip for a buzz.

 

[Soundbwoy]

Introvert as well but about to hit this Nao show next week, I can hit up a female friend to tag along but I really enjoy going to R&B shows alone because the NeoSoul Hoes

 

[Balla]

How do you go to a bar or lounge alone?

At least with clubs u can walk around more and it's darker.

The other two is more lit and less room to move around.

I'm a introvert myself and used to be like you OP until I changed it up. Just get out and go. Like others have said go to a bar/lounge and just chill. Have a few drinks or snacks, watch a game, play pool, etc. Eventually you'll start talking to people. Even if you come off awkward/shy the more you do it the easier it will become and the less awkward you'll be.

Also don't just do it to just get women but do it to get out the house and open yourself up to new experiences.

 

[richaveli83]

How do you go to a bar or lounge alone?

At least with clubs u can walk around more and it's darker.

The other two is more lit and less room to move around.

Just do it. It took a lot for me to do it because it felt weird but I was like fukk it.

 

[Balla]

Were there a lot of white people there? Like did you stand out?

What was your reason for going out solo?

Mines is because nikkas love to stay home, so I gotta do what I gotta do.

Just do it. It took a lot for me to do it because it felt weird but I was like fukk it.

 

[Indiglow Meta (R$G)]

I go outside, I figure out what I wanna do, I go to the destination, I enjoy myself, maybe strike up a convo about somebody's clothing or a current event, or whatever the fukk comes to my mind and I feel like talmbat...then I leave if I'm not busy walking around and watching people. I enjoy people-watching
Edit: I don't drink and I'm not really super young so I'm not clubby anymore. Y'all should stay from round there anyway, it's not worth the price of entry + bottle service culture killed it.

 

[richaveli83]

Were there a lot of white people there? Like did you stand out?

What was your reason for going out solo?

Mines is because nikkas love to stay home, so I gotta do what I gotta do.

Naw it was a pretty mixed crowd.

I've always been someone that generally ran solo so to an extent I always stood out. I dress nice and get compliments so I take it from there as far as conversation.

My reason was I've always been a homebody and introverted. In my younger days when I did go out with my friends was because I was usually the designated driver. I've never been a hard drinker so I was always the sober dude. When I relocated to Houston years ago I didn't know anyone so it made it hard for me. I literally only went to work and the gym. I would do stuff like go to the movies or dinner alone or whatever but those are things you can generally do alone. Basically I just got tired of spending my free nights at home watching Netflix, sports, or playing video games. Due to my work schedule I wasn't really able to hang out with folks because when I was off they were working or weren't available and when they were available I was working. Plus in my circle I'm one of the few who doesn't have kids and not married/long term relationship. I generally got my stuff together as far as finances, transportation, my own spot, etc. I started out just going to Dave and Busters to watch a game and eventually moved on from there.