Indiglow Meta (R$G)
Ultra.
Get a motel, breh...
Most states let you have a blade smaller than the width of your hand. There are also "self defense beads".
How do y'all go out alone?
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Most states let you have a blade smaller than the width of your hand. There are also "self defense beads".
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Women simply can't handle rejection like we can, so they're gonna approach with some "plausible deniability". So if you talk to them and turn out to be wack, they can act like they didn't know what they were doing, because the approach was so subtle.
Plus they don't wanna come off as masculine, by just coming straight out and saying that they're into you.
I agree with the brotha who said to not get drunk. I've gone home alone a few times, because I had a few drinks and wasn't thinking clearly. Or I've said something really stupid that I would not have said sober, and it turned the girl off. Have 1 drink max, and order cokes for the rest of the night.
Virtuous_Brotha
Superstar
Feel your pain about not having any close friends i'm 25 and feel like i'm wasting my youth as i literally do nothing on the weekends and at this road it's gonna be very hard to make any as most people in my age group already have a set of friends why would they want my boring azz as an extension if they happy with their circle.
Summer time is the worst extremely depressing seeing everyone chilling in the sun with their people. At one point i was gonna give up and just be a full time loaner but i realise this will severely damage any chance of getting with a woman honestly feel like offing myself sometimes as this is mostly my fault and there is no end in sight to my loneliness
Summer time is the worst extremely depressing seeing everyone chilling in the sun with their people. At one point i was gonna give up and just be a full time loaner but i realise this will severely damage any chance of getting with a woman honestly feel like offing myself sometimes as this is mostly my fault and there is no end in sight to my loneliness
the cac mamba
Veteran
fair enough
UpAndComing
Veteran
If you can't find comfort and piece in being alone, there's something wrong with you IMO
Whatever happened to finding hobbies you like to do and meeting people at said places?
4yrs ago I decided I was gonna get back into rollerskating at the rink, after asking a bunch of peeps to go and none wanted to, I went solo, 4yrs later I have met a gang of people that we all meet at the rink on Sundays for rap and R&B jams on 4-wheels.
Same thing with motorcycling, bought my 1st bike 20 yrs ago, road alone a lot then met a bunch of peeps who ride and became friends. There is nothing wrong with going out dolo, you can definitely build up your convo skills.
This is something that is a problem in our society, a lot of peeps don't know how to be happy by themselves. That is a snowball effect that leads to fukked up relationships.
4yrs ago I decided I was gonna get back into rollerskating at the rink, after asking a bunch of peeps to go and none wanted to, I went solo, 4yrs later I have met a gang of people that we all meet at the rink on Sundays for rap and R&B jams on 4-wheels.
Same thing with motorcycling, bought my 1st bike 20 yrs ago, road alone a lot then met a bunch of peeps who ride and became friends. There is nothing wrong with going out dolo, you can definitely build up your convo skills.
This is something that is a problem in our society, a lot of peeps don't know how to be happy by themselves. That is a snowball effect that leads to fukked up relationships.
UpAndComing
Veteran
Exactly. Social Media is the perfect example of people not comfortable with being alone, and it only makes things worse
You'd be where in public? You'd bring more than one instrument?do this.
Even if you can't talk to people about it, you can play and entertain them. I've learned how to play several instruments and i'd "prejudge" the type of person and what i thought they would like, play it on the spot, and easily get money from them even though I wasn't doing it for cash. I was doing it to improve at my hobby. I gained so many useful connections doing that, not to mention girls who straight up dropped $20's on me and ended up fukkin me
Hol up, you dead ass bringing out connect four?
No, I play multiple instruments but I’d only bring one to the mall. I’d play some stuff and improvise popular songs (old school when older people walked by, pop when younger people walked by). I’d collect dough and phone numbers of females before hatin ass security would kick me out .
Taadow
The StarchBishop™️
Dead ass...look, mayne: I'm the only one out here in charge of me having fun.
I'll be damned if I go in a stuffy bar just to sit there and do nothing but drink overpriced beer (which I don't even like like that) and look at a TV. You set up that Connect Four and just kick back and people come up like "oh chit, I ain't played that in a minute..." It works every time.
The reason people are shook about going out alone is because they go out with nothing to do.
So if you have something to do, you don't have to worry about standing around somewhere doing "nothing" and how it might look to people you don't even know...
dora_da_destroyer
Master Baker
Hit bars alone...fukk the club. Always easy to spark up a few words at the bar. Don’t focus on trying to pull women, just talk to a chick on some regular conversation shyt. And don’t just focus on talking to women, talk to the breh next to you on some chill shyt.
I go to bars alone regularly and I’ve sparked up good conversations with young, old, black, white, women and men.
I go to bars alone regularly and I’ve sparked up good conversations with young, old, black, white, women and men.
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