How do yall handle bad breakups?

Silkk

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Time heals all wounds up.


Take the time to feel it, heal, and then level up harder than you ever did before. Come out the other side of that shyt like:


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Kinguno

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Keep it to myself but I am very much in love with a woman after a long time even with serious relationships after and it just sucks I smell her when she's not around and just so much more

It makes me feel like a loser so I keep it to myself but social media doesn't help when it's so obvious it's the same on her end

Can't talk to friends about it because they never had a love like that and can't talk to family about it because they have their own baggage
 

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acceptance & keeping busy

1. understand its over and that no amount of talking it through will mend that relationship. Its only downhill from there even if yall manage to hash things out. it will never be the same :wow:
2. KEEP BUSY. If you work, find ways to get more responsibility or find another hustle. If you study, do some community service, join a social club or take an online course that you've always found interesting. whatever you do just dont be idle.

Soon after a while it will hit and you'll be like "damn, my ex hasn't even crossed my mind in ages :leon:"

Thats when you'll know its time to go out there and feast on some new poon :ohlawd:
 

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Alot of you need to take a long hard look at yourself and realize your response to the breakup is why you got broken up with in the first place.


"I drink/party"

"fukk someone else"

"I think nothing of it"

Probably the same type of energy you were prioritizing and giving off while you were in the relationship:respect:
 

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Don’t drink. It’s a temporary patch and you could risk doing something dumb which could fukk things up even more. Don’t be a victim to circumstances, that relationship won’t define your life. Go to the gym or take up a hobby. Stay busy.

I got out of something a few months back, I think about her less and less but for the most part I just focus on myself. My chef gave me to responsibility to plate a dish to show the owner by the end of the week. My mind has to focus on this opposed to an old flame.

Keep your head up. When you come through the other side, you’ll be aight.
 
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