How do yall handle bad breakups?

[b_low_brown]

Excercise
Talk about the bytch with an old head
Go hard in Brazillian Jiu-Jitsu
Get a slump buster

Slump buster?

 

[Mowgli]

Slump buster?

A woman who isn't ideal to be used for physical contact which helps take your mind off ur emotions

 

[b_low_brown]

A woman who isn't ideal to be used for physical contact which helps take your mind off ur emotions

Oh! Some fresh meat to cleanse the palate.

 

[International Playa]

No contact.
Work more OT to fill the void.
Talk more to my female friends
Hang out with the homies

 

[ReadOneBookAWeek]

fukk that hoe

 

[Heafcliffe]

I used to:
- delete all her numbers
- unfollow on all social media
- depending on how serious, would delete all mutual friends' social media too (wouldn't want to see any subsequent pics of her)

I'd have a small bout of pity but cold turkey was best for me. Would hurt initially but, over time, I'd internalize the situation and become a better, more mature/ seasoned person.

 

[daiquiridream]

Always change my physical appearance. Bad break up this April so far I lightened my hair, lost 10 lbs, got a tattoo, started getting acrylic nails, eyelash extensions, different makeup style.

The goal is to not see the broken heart every time I look in the mirror. It’s easier to forget him if I feel like a different woman. A woman he hasn’t had the pleasure of.

A few months to a year of transformation before I’m ready to look another man in the eyes. I love being single and flirting with guys but not when I still feel attached to an ex in any way.

Music and dancing help me cope more than anything

 

[daiquiridream]

What's a bad breakup?

When it’s not a good idea to reconcile or even remain friends

 

[Pimpdaddy]

I should have one now but I'm feeling too good and that bothers me a bit

 

[G.O.A.T Squad Spokesman]

When it’s not a good idea to reconcile or even remain friends

Then that seems like a cause for a celebration. I would think one would be alleviated when a relationship like that comes to a conclusion since that person seems to be so toxic.

 

[The Prince of All Saiyans]

Yall drink & party?
Stay home and wallow in self pity?


How do yall cope?

 

[daiquiridream]

Then that seems like a cause for a celebration. I would think one would be alleviated when a relationship like that comes to a conclusion since that person seems to be so toxic.

Except if u already dedicated a lot of time trying to make it work with that person. Then it also feels like a failure when the problems couldn’t be solved and y’all just gotta give up.

 

[G.O.A.T Squad Spokesman]

Except if u already dedicated a lot of time trying to make it work with that person. Then it also feels like a failure when the problems couldn’t be solved and y’all just gotta give up.

I think people only get depressed after relationships if they still want to be with that person or have an affinity towards them. If you don't want to be with them at all you're happy af that it's over no matter how much you tried to make it work.

Once you escape misery you don't wallow.

 

[SATAN]

Smash a new one ASAP

 

[daiquiridream]

I think people only get depressed after relationships if they still want to be with that person or have an affinity towards them. If you don't want to be with them at all you're happy af that it's over no matter how much you tried to make it work.

Once you escape misery you don't wallow.

Sometimes we lose something valuable before we escape. Not just our time. My last breakup I was mourning that I had to trade in my car and find a new apartment and job to escape. So many things can be joined in a relationship that when u breakup it’s more complicated. Maybe joint friends and pets.

Every breakup is different depending on how long and deep the relationship had gotten.