How do you deal with a clingy girl

[HelgaPataki]

expect this type of behavior from women who pay for the dates

 

[thoushallhustle]

the worst part is she dont drive and she live 45 mins away (1-way) so that gas be killin a brotha pockets she's on that "i wanna see you all the time" ish

off topic but ughhh i hate this shyt

 

[Piff Perkins]

Is it feasible for her to stay with you for a week? If so I'd let her stay over for that time so she can see how busy you actually are - you'd certainly do stuff with her too, but she could at least see first hand why you tired as hell.

 

[JayYoung713]

Yup she's in love with you bro I dont think theres a way you could let her down easy. You can either just suck it up and gone and scoop her and chill with her or tell her the truth and prepare for the tears and accusations.

 

[Black]

i like her tho. she just started acting like this the past 2 weeks

well damn I guess you gotta deal with it. I told my ex she was too clingy she got all fukkin emotional like "omg u don't love me?" I'm like so I called her the next day like I can't do this it's too much stress and I loved her too didn't want to do it. If I wanted to keep my sanity it had to be done.

 

[PortCityProphet]

Is it feasible for her to stay with you for a week? If so I'd let her stay over for that time so she can see how busy you actually are - you'd certainly do stuff with her too, but she could at least see first hand why you tired as hell.

nah i dont live by myself and im not busy at all i just like to be by myself cuz aint nothing to do in this city anyway plus i hate driving out there to pick her up drop her off

 

[SecretLover]

. i bugg tf outta my boyfriend lol

 

[Piff Perkins]

Ahh I see, my bad. Damn...

Well I guess you gotta have "the talk" with her. Tell her you love her and all that jazz but that you can't pick her up all the time. DON'T say "I need some space" because girls never take that shyt well. You gotta be delicate with this shyt. She lives so far away it wouldn't be a leap for her to start thinking you cheating on her with some chick closer to your crib.

Do something special for her, then drop the news afterward.

 

[-DMP-]

You gotta be honest with her and let her know how you feel. Chances are this AINT a phase and/or something close to this will be the norm thats expected from you.

#1 rule in relationships, do not start shyt you dont plan on keeping up.

-DMP-

 

[PortCityProphet]

and she wanna talk to me all day. textin tho none of that phone call shyt

 

[TheBigBopper]

kill her

 

[Abstract83]

Put ya foot down. Let her know when its cool for ya to hang. Make yourself busy. Dont answer every phone call. Dont call or hang on the phone too long. Respond to texts late. Start now.

 

[George Gooney]

Stop giving her a nikka to cling to. If she wanna chill and you ain't with it then say no and fukk her feelings unless.....




You love that hoe???

 

[Abstract83]

And dont pull that "space" shyt. Just do what I said ^ if it gets worse confront her about it. If she a ride or die she'll understand.

 

[The Message]

I know this all too well.

I like being by myself, I live alone and enjoy the space and silence. But a lot of girls dont have many friends, no hobbies, no interests, so they wanna be all up on you. And when they fall in love, they fall HARD.

If it's early in the relationship, you can be up front with her. The longer you wait, the harder it is. Address it early. These kinda girls are highly insecure, so tell her how you feel in a delicate manner. Get your mouthpiece in order. IRON FIST IN A VELVET GLOVE!!!

How long yall been kickin it?