how do you deal with making difficult/Life altering decisions

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Do weigh out all your options??
Do you pray about it and leave it in gods hands??
Sometime them type of decisions can be stressful as hell depending on the situation
 

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:comeon:did u get a hoodrat pregnant breh? Pay ya child support

Lol naw breh,i don have any kids i just gotta make decisions about school. I was just chillin deep thinking and wanted to know how some people deal with making tough decisions in their life
 

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Yeah pro/con list is the way to go. Also, don't listen to other people--you know what you want, and nobody else is in your head. Do you mind me asking what you're trying to figure out?
 

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Yeah pro/con list is the way to go. Also, don't listen to other people--you know what you want, and nobody else is in your head. Do you mind me asking what you're trying to figure out?

I was just talking about in General. But My school choice is what im thinking about.One of my close friends who's like a brother to me is going to this cc and he wanted me to come with him. The only problem is , i dont have a car so it'll take me about A hour and twenty-seven minutes to get there according to google maps.That the only problem. I live in the hood and im not trying to go to one of these hood schools because i want a New experience with a different surrounding cause im tired of the same shyt

The Pros: 1.Its a good School
2.I'll already know somebody who's there that knows people there so socialy I'll be alright
3.It'll be my first college experience

Cons : Distance
 

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What I do is jerk off and AS SOON AS I bust my nut, I know I've got 7-9 seconds of the cleanest thinking my mind can do so I use those few precious moments to make the call.

Completely serious btw.
 

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Do as much research as possible, look for anonymous opinions, do a pros and cons list to see what makes the most sense in the long run, and finally ask close friends/family on their input (usually after I'm leaning on one thing or another;you have to be able to explain why you think it'd a good choice).

As for your situation, I think you should go to the school. Their is probably nothing for you in the hood. The distance isn't too big of a deal if you're willing to room with your friend near the campus. Sounds like a lot of great experiences waiting to happen
 

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Go with your gut instinct. Don't listen to many voices from the outside unless they are elders with experience. The end of the day you have to make them decisions and do what feels right...from the gut/initial instinct.
 

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What I do is jerk off and AS SOON AS I bust my nut, I know I've got 7-9 seconds of the cleanest thinking my mind can do so I use those few precious moments to make the call.

Completely serious btw.

At first your i thought you was trolling but you might be on to something with that
 
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