How do you differentiate real love from infatuation/attraction?

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:ehh: better 4 years than bein married with 3 kids and she tells you she can't take it anymore as your battling sickness.
That's true. No marriage and no kids. It coulda been a lot worse :ehh:. shyt still sucked though :mjcry:

Oh well, I'll chalk it up to a learning experience...
 

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So imagine there is a attractive girl at work place who you see everyday but dont speak to. At this point you have no feelings for her and dont lust after them either.

But when you do start chatting to them and get to know them then you start developing feelings for them.

What would you call that?

lust, that new car smell.

you know nothing about that person minus the image they portray at work.


I've been with numerous women in my life, some even hotter and more successful than the two woman I loved doesn't mean I loved them, I had feelings some of lust or happy thoughts but that's it.

I ain't no chick dropping the l word after a month together and tings
 

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Now who else wanna fukk with Hollywood Court?
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would you still marry them or stick by them if they ended up looking like......


She divorced him :to:
 

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She divorced him :to:

that was my point the stick by them part :heh:


brehettes will say they love you and stick by you when you look like

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but , when you fought for your country and come back looking like
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Regardless of the tragedy, his girlfriend waited for him in their hometown Metamora, Illinois. She stuck by him as he underwent more than 50 operations and could hardly wait for him to recover enough to get married.

The great day happened on October 6, 2006. The public was stunned. The governor of Illinois proclaimed the day a state holiday and the media covered the event, writing: “Love conquers all!”.


Renee could not fight it, she realised they could go through everything as friends. Therefore, she just left in January this year. Tyler assumes she is with another man




FOR BETTER FOR WORSE
IN SICKNESS AND IN HEALTH


I DO

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I think once you get to the point with someone where you can sit there and talk for hours about anything and there doesn't need to be anything sexual about it is a good indication of whether you are starting to care about them. You enjoy their company beyond trying to knock 'em down.

I'm not saying you love them but I think that's how it starts. You start developing feelings and care about what's going on in their life. :manny:
 

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Now who else wanna fukk with Hollywood Court?
that was my point the stick by them part :heh:


brehettes will say they love you and stick by you when you look like

y172172169226319508.jpg



but , when you fought for your country and come back looking like
y172172169196081316.jpg






Regardless of the tragedy, his girlfriend waited for him in their hometown Metamora, Illinois. She stuck by him as he underwent more than 50 operations and could hardly wait for him to recover enough to get married.

The great day happened on October 6, 2006. The public was stunned. The governor of Illinois proclaimed the day a state holiday and the media covered the event, writing: “Love conquers all!”.


Renee could not fight it, she realised they could go through everything as friends. Therefore, she just left in January this year. Tyler assumes she is with another man




FOR BETTER FOR WORSE
IN SICKNESS AND IN HEALTH


I DO

:sas1:


Yeah, the vast majority of people are lying to themselves when they say their love for their S/O is unconditional, the only unconditional love people have is for their family (parents, siblings, children).
 

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that was my point the stick by them part :heh:


brehettes will say they love you and stick by you when you look like

y172172169226319508.jpg



but , when you fought for your country and come back looking like
y172172169196081316.jpg






Regardless of the tragedy, his girlfriend waited for him in their hometown Metamora, Illinois. She stuck by him as he underwent more than 50 operations and could hardly wait for him to recover enough to get married.

The great day happened on October 6, 2006. The public was stunned. The governor of Illinois proclaimed the day a state holiday and the media covered the event, writing: “Love conquers all!”.


Renee could not fight it, she realised they could go through everything as friends. Therefore, she just left in January this year. Tyler assumes she is with another man




FOR BETTER FOR WORSE
IN SICKNESS AND IN HEALTH


I DO

:sas1:

Lets not pretend like 99% of men wouldn't go running in the other direction as soon as they saw their gf looking like that. The wedding wouldn't have even happened, they probably wouldn't even want to be friends.
 

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Now who else wanna fukk with Hollywood Court?
Lets not pretend like 99% of men wouldn't go running in the other direction as soon as they saw their gf looking like that. The wedding wouldn't have even happened, they probably wouldn't even want to be friends.

That's the point, love between men and women is almost always conditional.
 

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lust, that new car smell.

you know nothing about that person minus the image they portray at work.


I've been with numerous women in my life, some even hotter and more successful than the two woman I loved doesn't mean I loved them, I had feelings some of lust or happy thoughts but that's it.

I ain't no chick dropping the l word after a month together and tings

Ive been chatting to her for over 6 months breh
 
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