How Do You Explain Not Having Time To Your Spouse

[Ghanaian Armor]

So you work every day? You have no days off? No vacation weeks? The only time you are home is to sleep?

If she is important to you,you will find ways to spend time with her, even if it is 10 minutes. Make those 10 minutes count. When you come home and she is standing there, do you approach her, hug and kiss her hello or do you walk by, wave and go straight to the bathroom?

Do you have any meals together? That's a great time to catch up and show interest in each other's day.

Put yourself in his shoes. Women fail to do this which is why they stay unhappy in general. That dude is tired after a hard day it's her job to comfort him if her job is easier not the other way around. Sounds like they don't even live together yet or have kids so imagine what problems she will bring if he stays with her.

 

[BaldingSoHard]

we have 3 kids so me and my wife love not seeing each other and I work nights too

Man, I have some follow up questions.

Do you love not seeing each other because it increases the anticipation for when you do get to see each other, or do ya'll just hate each other?
Are you happy with this arrangement?

 

[brother walt]

Man, I have some follow up questions.

Do you love not seeing each other because it increases the anticipation for when you do get to see each other, or do ya'll just hate each other?
Are you happy with this arrangement?

it increase anticipation I love her with all my heart

 

[BaldingSoHard]

it increase anticipation I love her with all my heart

 

[ThaBronxBully]

If You Don't Live Together Then You Shouldn't Even Be In This Relationship, If You Do Live Together Then It Sounds Like Both Of You Aren't Doing Your Part In Creating The Time

 

[VFib]

Put yourself in his shoes. Women fail to do this which is why they stay unhappy in general. That dude is tired after a hard day it's her job to comfort him if her job is easier not the other way around. Sounds like they don't even live together yet or have kids so imagine what problems she will bring if he stays with her.

I know how it feels to come home tired after a long day (I work 12hrs), but that didn't stop my (ex) man from wanting me to cook for him, then freaking him.

I didn't ask him a hard question. Go back and read my post. I didn't ask him to go mow the lawn after a long day at work. Hugging and kissing the person you care for doesn't take but a few seconds. If you can sit and eat a meal, you can have a conversation while doing so. Part of being in a relationship is meeting each other's needs. Those little things and moments count, too.

 

[King Poetic]

that's why u get a mail order bride @BlackieRobinson


-- BLACKIE ROBINSON

 

[IAmGettingAMailOrderBride]

If you guys had a foreign wife she'd understand that people work


- blackierobinson

 

[Yup]

She isn't shapeless but shape is not the first thing you should be paying attention to when choosing a Wife. That's how nikkas get robbed and left homeless

This is what you should be preaching go bm. To choose better partners in women.

 

[KravenMorehead™]

Not sure. Does she share the same definition of success as you?

 

[realn!ggatime]

dnt lie , i never lied to my exs & alot of us still tlk and keep it friendly.

 

[Freedman]

I could spend some time with your girl while you working bro bro

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

My Wife said she will not tolerate it and rather have less money...

But she's Japanese, good luck for fellas who are with irrational American females

Mine used to complain while living the "Kept Woman" life.
I cut back and told her it's time for her to start working to make up the lack.
Now she understands.