How do you feel about significant others keeping items from previous relationships?

[Oceanicpuppy]

sentimental items like clothing, jewelry, etc....are you cool with it or nah?

 

[Paradise]

I wouldn't care... it's just a shirt or a watch.

But I could see why some would say no... because they would feel like there is some type of emotional attachment almost like they still wanna be with the person.

 

[Groanman]

I found some love letters my girl's "first" boyfriend wrote to her.

I read through a few of them and then I realized, "Damn....that nga was this romantic and still couldn't keep her. Note to self.....don't waste time composing love letters."

 

[Lady.Libra.]

I don't mind as long as it isn't in my face. They are just things - it's those feelings/memories/sentiments behind the things that I would be concerned about; are the feelings still there and will he act on them...

 

[flea]

An ex got me some Miami Dolphins pajama pants, my girl refuses to let me wear them when I'm around her.

 

[Oceanicpuppy]

If they don't have any emotional attachment to it they can keep it. But if they are holding on for sentimental reasons. If your really over someone you shouldn't hold on to things like that your just bringing unnessary emotional baggage.

 

[CinnaSlim]

if it's got a use then cool. If it's sole purpose is remembering your ex why?

It's not a big deal to me. I'm not a sentimental person and it's hard for me to keep shot for years because I lose stuff.

 

[cam>]

I have jewelry and clothes from exes.


I have one ex who had his ex's little girl panties and a bra, in one of his bottom drawers. I don't know why it didn't bother me then. That same ex also now has a couple of my bras and panties. I know bc he told me.

I don't understand it?

 

[NoMoreWhiteWoman2020]

I could care less, that's just one more thing to worry about in a relationship.

 

[Malta]

Sentimental reasons? Homie better be dead if that's the case


If it's something like a PS4 or some shyt I could use, keep it. If it's some shyt like a Teddy Bear a dude got you, it's either the bear or me

 

[patscorpio]

For the most part it doesn't concern me..my lady knows exactly where the majority of the stuff from my past exes are located..she gets mad though when i put the stuff of that nature that she has given me in the same place as those lol

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

I have a few of my ex's t-shirts that I like to sleep in. I can see how a new guy wouldn't like it but I don't have them for sentimental purposes. They're just comfy. If a guy kept something from his ex that has no meaning behind it, I don't think I would mind.

 

[Neuromancer]

I'm okay with it as long as I
The emotional attachment is gone. My ex painted a picture of me as Ellegua and I keep it on my wall cause it's so well done.

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• Neuromancer
• Dec 6, 2015

 

[EpicStoryTeller]

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Real talk though I threw away everything from my past relationships except for some love letter that a high school girl friend gave me.

Yall need to watch The Game and see how ya boy Derwin kept that bear around after he broke up with twin. They have more sentimental value than you think.

 

[wickedsm]

I have jewelry and clothes from exes.


I have one ex who had his ex's little girl panties and a bra, in one of his bottom drawers. I don't know why it didn't bother me then. That same ex also now has a couple of my bras and panties. I know bc he told me.

I don't understand it?

He's got a little girls bra and panties?