How do you feel about your sig other's social media followers?

[Lana Kane]

Yeah

my girl would never stop me from partying with my friends. She knows all my friends.

id never stop her either. As long as she tells me her plans etc

trust is key

and @His_Excellence_Reincar reincar clearly cant trust

I dont blame him doe. Hoes is scandalous

Well I'll blame him because he associated with those hoes

 

[Desirous]

get your girl to post on here.

both of them are posting on here freely, so your girl can come on here too.

I wouldn't want my man on here either...cause having people know your business on a forum site is a recipe for disaster most times. I'd be cool if he were on a different forum site. People get too emotional seeing people interact online sometimes...I'd rather he do his own thing and I do mine. That's like me calling his boys for advice or something...that's what I have my girls for...why would I hit his boys up to talk about our relationship? Sometimes it's better to keep your in real life friends and stuff separate from these forum sites.

 

[Tommy Knocks]

Well your a single mom though

Well I'll blame him because he associated with those hoes

 

[Desirous]

It's a secret society all we ask is trust. No one should invite family or friends to post here unless they find out for themselves. fukk that.

Agreed.

 

[MikelArteta]

I only associate with righteous submissive women.

Well I'll blame him because he associated with those hoes

 

[Tommy Knocks]

I wouldn't want my man on here either...cause having people know your business on a forum site is a recipe for disaster most times. I'd be cool if he were on a different forum site. People get too emotional seeing people interact online sometimes...I'd rather he do his own thing and I do mine. That's like me calling his boys for advice or something...that's what I have my girls for...why would I hit his boys up to talk about our relationship? Sometimes it's better to keep your in real life friends and stuff separate from these forum sites.

who said he would be exposing the real life on here. I meant he can just post regularly and not talk about real life. what is there to hide? he can go to the club with his boys but can't post on the coli?

how quick you both turn 180. I dont buy what either one of u are talking about, quite frankly both of yall are just talkin that good good. ass talking as I like to call it.

 

[Desirous]

who said he would be exposing the real life on here. I meant he can just post regularly and not talk about real life. what is there to hid? he can go to the club with his boys but can't post on the coli?

how quick you both turn 180. I dont buy what you're either one are talking about, quite frankly both of yall are just talkin that good good. ass talking as I like to call it.

If he found out about it and wants to post, I'm not gonna tell him he can't or make him log off...but there are enough forum sites out there...that's like him going to a club with his boys and me showing up at the same club, when there are many others to choose from.

 

[MikelArteta]

Yup

who said he would be exposing the real life on here. I meant he can just post regularly and not talk about real life. what is there to hide? he can go to the club with his boys but can't post on the coli?

how quick you both turn 180. I dont buy what either one of u are talking about, quite frankly both of yall are just talkin that good good. ass talking as I like to call it.

 

[Tommy Knocks]

If he found out about it and wants to post, I'm not gonna tell him he can't or make him log off...but there are enough forum sites out there...that's like him going to a club with his boys and me showing up at the same club, when there are many others to choose from.

no its not at all. in fact it seems more logical for you to show up to the club he's at. where you should be.

you would have a problem with him going to a club where you and your girls are at?

 

[MikelArteta]

I wonder why women can't find a quality man with their views

 

[Rawtid]

who said he would be exposing the real life on here. I meant he can just post regularly and not talk about real life. what is there to hide? he can go to the club with his boys but can't post on the coli?

how quick you both turn 180. I dont buy what either one of u are talking about, quite frankly both of yall are just talkin that good good. ass talking as I like to call it.

If he was a Coli member BEFORE we dated that's one thing, but inviting him here to post? Nah, I'm good. It's not about hiding anything, it's just that most people here are foul as shyt. Imagine Binary's BF posting here...you know some nikka is going to PM him and tell him that his girl shyt on herself or throw all types of shade just because it's her. It's not a "friendly" posting environment.

Secondly, I'm grown. I've done all that "who is that bytch, where you going, what you doing, where you been?" yada fukking yada. The only thing it yielded was arguments, distrust and sleepless nights. What a miserable relationship to have with someone.

 

[Rawtid]

I wonder why women can't find a quality man with their views

Because quality men don't exist. Just like you don't believe quality women exist.

 

[Tommy Knocks]

If he was a Coli member BEFORE we dated that's one thing, but inviting him here to post? Nah, I'm good. It's not about hiding anything, it's just that most people here are foul as shyt. Imagine Binary's BF posting here...you know some nikka is going to PM him and tell him that his girl shyt on herself or throw all types of shade just because it's her. It's not a "friendly" posting environment.

Secondly, I'm grown. I've done all that "who is that bytch, where you going, what you doing, where you been?" yada fukking yada. The only thing it yielded was arguments, distrust and sleepless nights. What a miserable relationship to have with someone.

you're associating open honesty and doing things with full disclosure as miserable and distrust.

Yup

her relationship sounds more like a friendship than a unison. she's got half my post count in 1/4 of the time. she be on here talking to us more than her dude.

 

[Desirous]

no its not at all. in fact it seems more logical for you to show up to the club he's at. where you should be.

you would have a problem with him going to a club where you and your girls are at?

I wouldn't have a problem with it. Just saying if he's telling me that he and the boys are going out and I have plans with the girls, most likely we're not going to the same club. If he shows up, I'm not going to have an issue with it, just saying that there's also nothing wrong with him having his own plans and vice versa, too.

 

[Desirous]

I wonder why women can't find a quality man with their views

Who said we can't? With all due respect, where's your quality woman?