How do you get people to stop talking behind your back?

[Ciggavelli]

Just know that if it backfires you might have people talking even more shyt about you.

But in that type of situation, I think that's all you can do. Or just give a shot at trying to make more friends, like @Crakface said.

Yeah, I've been trying. It's hard to relate to coworkers though. I guess I'll just fake it more

 

[Crakface]

Arent introverts undercover degenerates.

 

[Ciggavelli]

dealing with gossiping people at the workplace u usually walk a tight rope, because your personal life can be circulated around the workplace.. I tend to tell people certain aspect of my personal life, like where i live and my hobbies and that's it.. relationship wise no way

exactly. what the fukk can I talk about. I'm a nerd. I play games, read tech news, etc. I run stats and do studies all day, you'd think there would be other nerds around. Apparently not the case . I also work mostly with women (no-ism).

 

[Roberto Dinero]

Yeah, I've been trying. It's hard to relate to coworkers though. I guess I'll just fake it more

Being fake nice is a necessary survival skill in this present day world. Specially in an office environment. Just make small talk about irrelevant shyt that doesn't matter and you're good.

Arent introverts undercover degenerates.

C'mon now. You being a little hard on dude.

 

[Scientific Playa]

How do you get people to stop talking behind your back? I work at a place like that, and it's becoming a problem. If you don't like that I'm an introvert, let me know f2f. Stop talking shyt

I need help brehs

out perform them and produce more value and revenue for the company that gave you a chance/meal ticket. let em go run and tell that ciggavelli is a top earner and major asset to the organization

 

[Ciggavelli]

out perform them and produce more value and revenue for the company that gave you a chance/meal ticket. let em go run and tell that ciggavelli is a top earner and major asset to the organization

I wish it was that easy. I'm not in a sales position. I run research studies. Clients love me (I got tons of support to back that up). I dunno...

 

[Roberto Dinero]

exactly. what the fukk can I talk about. I'm a nerd. I play games, read tech news, etc. I run stats and do studies all day, you'd think there would be other nerds around. Apparently not the case . I also work mostly with women (no-ism).

Well, that explains it. Women love to gossip. You can't really do much about that. But like I said, if you're fed up, just snitch on them.

 

[Ciggavelli]

Well, that explains it. Women love to gossip. You can't really do much about that. But like I said, if you're fed up, just snitch on them.

May have to. But the potential for backfiring is strong. I got a lot of thinking to do.

 

[BrothaZay]

Arent introverts undercover degenerates.

i always get in trouble at work for saggin my pants
plus my homie told me when i left to go pushh carts da boss was talkn bout how slow i am but he never say dat shyt to my face i think its cuz ima CRIP he scared

 

[Scientific Playa]

I wish it was that easy. I'm not in a sales position. I run research studies. Clients love me (I got tons of support to back that up). I dunno...

what ever you do produce numbers and quality work.... keeping extra busy keeps you out of the worthless non-productive office chit chat swamp

 

[ScoopNScore]

How do you get people to stop talking behind your back? I work at a place like that, and it's becoming a problem. If you don't like that I'm an introvert, let me know f2f. Stop talking shyt

I need help brehs

Do it to her back. Find some dirt about her and see how she likes it. Or better yet, expose her right here on the Coli

 

[FukyourFort]

who gives a fuk? just do you. its annoying but they gonna do what they gonna do regardless. as long as you have knowledge of self that other shyt is irrelevant

 

[Ciggavelli]

what ever you do produce numbers and quality work.... keeping extra busy keeps you out of the worthless non-productive office chit chat swamp

I actually got talked to about being too productive. They said I just stay in my office and work all day

LIke that's a bad thing?

 

[Ciggavelli]

who gives a fuk? just do you. its annoying but they gonna do what they gonna do regardless. as long as you have knowledge of self that other shyt is irrelevant

I have knowledge of self, but I also wanna get more money. Maybe I just need a new job

 

[FukyourFort]

if its that toxic then you might have to move on. i thought it was basic workplace shyt talking